I will make an extremely philosophical and longly discussable argument as short as possible. When something bad/good happens to you, you could've always prevented it and made the situation in the way you prefered. This way of thinking blames only yourself for anything that happens, if something good does then you did something the right way, the same goes for the opposite. I have had this mentality for the past 2 years, it's extremely stressing but gets things done. Is this a right mentality? Should we all adopt it? Is it right to make it absolute? Is the gain from it valuable enough to overcome the energy and stress expense? You can answer another question, any of this, all of this, tell me about how your dog barks, or tell me your philosophy of life.