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Am I a Pervert for having a Porn Addiction?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Darkest, Oct 25, 2021.

Am I a Pervert for having a Porn addiction

  1. Yes

    29 vote(s)
    42.6%
  2. No

    39 vote(s)
    57.4%
  1. My dad flashed a female classmate in class when he was 11. I did the same to my teacher when I was 10 xD
     
  2. E31

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    I don't see a problem there, how else would you let them know that you're sexually mature now? ;)
     
  3. Your way too young to be having a porn addiction. But thankfully, your aware of your problem now. It’s better to quit porn now and forever, before it starts to destroy your sexual health and your brain.

    It’s completely natural to start thinking about girls at this age. Just don’t watch porn.
     
  4. We all have "twisted" desires and crazy thoughts. It's what makes us human. It's just our nature, so it's pointless trying to suppress or reject them. What matters is to accept them for what they are: just desires and thoughts, and how we can channel them. Only then you will have control over your thoughts, rather than your thoughts controlling you.

    I had always been deeply ashamed of my "twisted" desires, until I found a woman who kind of had the same fantasies than me. Together we can express ourselves sexually and not judge each other. It's great and liberating. But I was only able to express myself by first accepting that my desires are simply human.

    How many times have I thought about murdering my boss, and how many people have had the same fantasies? It doesn't mean we're killers. It's just a thought.
     
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  5. Yes a pervert but you can always change your habbits and its not over and all of us were pervert once before we discovered this self improvement secret. But if your are a pervert then change to better NOT YOURSELF! but your habbit that makes you a pervert not yourself
     
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  6. Sylveon389

    Sylveon389 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah we are kind of perverts for porn but were doing our best to quit.
     
  7. Miracle2021

    Miracle2021 New Fapstronaut

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    Anything particular I just like huge tits nice bouncy bum and some hair...
     
  8. Branchman

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    I wouldn't say so. Having lust is something pretty normal and natural and I can say, even healthy in humans. But the issue is that we let our desires, brain and natural impulses to take control over us. It is just that we developed this "desire", "taste" in an unhealthy way or perveted way...

    Okay maybe yes but...

    To accurately say if you're a pervert we will have te evaluate what kind of porn you watch. But I don't think calling ourselves perverted is the better way to describe ourselves. Yes of course porn is abhorrent, detestable, human killer, poison, trash, etc. but having the desire of sex, sexual pleasure, sexual intimacy is something inherent in humans. You'll thoroughly recover from this addiction if you don't accept what you are. That's why I don't like saying we are or were perverts, it is that we let the natural desire to change.
     
  9. renew1

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    i think yes and no.

    no because human

    yes because just because we are human its not an excuse .

    humans have a problems with escalation .

    society could get very crazy if humans did not toe the line .

    wether you like it or not humans have problems

    you can ignore them and move on with your life

    or you can become sexual deviant by watching too much porn id opt for the move on with your life and be a well adjusted human being
     
  10. Thank you for your insight. I have always felt so guilty about the things that turn me on and get me the hardest. I have felt I was a pervert and that I was defective.
     

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