Am I cheating the 90 day challenge?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Nameless, Mar 9, 2017.

  1. Nameless

    Nameless Fapstronaut

    Hi All,

    I'm currently in the early afternoon of day 8 with no wanking or porn watching.

    The other night my partner and I engaged in sex. The problem is, my ball sac was so full of cum that I came within 2min. I washed my penis and we began again...... The same thing happened again..... The 3rd time I lasted 15min and the 4th time was 2min again

    My fiancé couldn't orgasam herself because of the the "stop, start" motion. She used sex toys on herself and it took all of my will power to keep going back and make her organsam

    I was so humiliated by this experience, usally I have no problem stafisfying her.
    I barely stafisfied myself with how quickly and often I cum'ed

    Would it be cheating if I were to say, wank the morning before sex? I know that my personally goal is to not wank. However if I can't enjoy sex because of it, I'll 100% cave!

    Does anybody fund that quitting "cold turkey" is to much?
    Is it best to Eas into it?

    My partner wants me to stop this challenge because of the issues it is presenting EG:
    not been able to sleep, angry/stressed, energy drained and of course not been able to have good sex.

    I really, really want to beat this addiction but I can't go without sex and I also can't distress my own partner.

    I honestly don't know what to do!

    The only way I could find to post a new thread was to go into my inbox and click the link from Alexander about posting in the introduction section.

    How do I post a new thread, without clicking that link every time??

    Thanks for reading
  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    How are you progressing today?

    What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?

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