I'm going to go see this girl who I've been dating for a few weeks now. I'm very attracted to her and I wanted to show her appreciation. I thought about getting her flowers for her performance and for bothering to spend time with me. The more I think about it though the more foolish it sounds. I have a mentality on feelings that says that when you stick your neck out you get killed. I appreciate and am open to all advice, but I would most appreciate any female advice. Is it a bad idea?