Am I going in the right direction?

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Andreid, Feb 18, 2017.

  1. Andreid

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    Hey guys! I'm a 22 years old boy who goes through a rough period in his love life. I want to find my inner peace by meeting girls, but I'm scared. I was suffering from PIED in the past years and that's the main reason I gave up PMO (I'm on day 54 btw).

    I'm scared that I will eventually meet a girl, hangout with her, make out and afterwards, got the chance to engage in a sexual act, but failing because of my PIED.

    What should I do? I want to have surpass my issues and I want to be sure I also got rid of PIED.
     
  2. NoneForMeThanks

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    Andreid,

    To begin, you are a 22 year old MAN. You are not a boy any longer!

    Congratulations on your 54 days! With this said, I think you may be getting a little too far ahead of yourself here. Focus on meeting and talking with girls first. Find a girl you actually like and feel comfortable with. THEN you can move forward with sexual things. Don't let PIED hold you back from talking to girls in the first place. You will cross that bridge when you get to it. But right now you have a few more bridges to cross, until PIED will even begin to be a problem. Go out, mingle, gain confidence, then worry about the PIED later. (PS, you'll be fine.)

    Cheers on your success,

    NONE
     
  3. I Free I

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  4. Andreid

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    You're right, @NoneForMeThanks ! I clearly need to forget about PIED and focus on my talking skills, I still have a long road to go in order to see my self over this problem.

    Thanks for your reply and congratulations for your 2 years without porn! You clearly are a great example for each of us that are still struggling with this!
     
  5. Andreid

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    You're right! I'm still rushing myself, I need to take it slower..
     
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