Hi, everyone. So, I’ve been learning and able to deal with most of this, and I rarely have triggers anymore. However, there is one situation that consistently triggers me to the verge of tears every time it happens. And I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable, if I’m expecting too much of him or whatever... but I just know that I need advice on how I can make this situation stop happening. So, the husband (PA) and I go to the gym together pretty much every M-Th evening because they have childcare at that time. Fitness is important to both of us. There is one young woman at our gym who comes in at least once a week at the same time that we are there, and she has one of those impossible ass to waist ratios, and is always wearing basically the bare minimum and most transparent leggings possible. Today, she wore leggings that had openings down the side, all the way from top to bottom. So, it’s extremely triggering to me having her in front of my husband and as soon as she walks in, my whole demeanor changes. I become instantly agitated, hyper aware, obsessed with watching him to see where he is looking, and I want to just finish my workout and leave. I hate it so much. And of course, he always steals a glance or two. Whatever he can get away with. I don’t blame him. I don’t have a big ass, and what man doesn’t wanna see an ass like hers? But it makes me absolutely crazy and I don’t know what to do. What would you guys do? Do I just leave it alone and get over it?