So I recently started dating someone who I very much want to be in a relationship with. I've learned that I likely have PIED from being single for the last years and masturbating to porn regularly. I'm currently in my early 30's and have been using porn regularly for a long time. My new romantic interest and I have had sex a few times, with a lot of difficulty on my part, and I found I basically had to think about my unrealistic sexual fantasies in order to achieve an erection. I had a lot of difficulty achieving / maintaining an erection though. I'm wondering if there's any hope for me if I totally abstain from porn but continue having sex with her multiple times a month? I've wanted to be with this girl for 10 years plus, and there's a lot of potential for something very serious here; I don't want to lose it. Additionally I don't ever get as hard or big as I used to either, I don't know if that's because of age, or if I can expect improvement there too?