American 34 yr old christian male looking for AP

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Dschamplin5, Sep 12, 2018.

  1. FranktheTank7

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    No i havent read it. have you heard good things?
     
  2. Dschamplin5

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    I've never read it my self but I have heard good things. I was just wondering if anyone had read it and found it to helpful.
     
  3. nate311

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    Beautiful. I'd also like to add Psalm 23:5 ...

    You prepare a table for me in the presence of my enemies.

    We are constantly in the presence of our enemies, whether it's our computer, phone, social media, magazines, movies, etc. King David was literally in a war zone, but we are in a spiritual and mental war zone. Stay vigilant brothers.
     
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  4. nate311

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    Hey all,
    Wanted to share something I stumbled upon over the weekend. It is Samuel's farewell speech to Israel as he is appointing Saul as the new king.

    1 Samuel 12:20-24

    ...“You have done all this evil; yet do not turn away from the Lord, but serve the Lord with all your heart. Do not turn away after useless idols. They can do you no good, nor can they rescue you, because they are useless. For the sake of his great name the Lord will not reject his people, because the Lord was pleased to make you his own."

    • What is our "useless idol?" Porn.
    • Does the Lord ever reject us because we've screwed up? No. But, verse 25 reads: "Yet if you persist in doing evil, both you and your king will perish.”

    So, we have a clear warning that we need to shape up, but we know the Lord is patient with us, just as he was with the Israelites.
     
  5. Dev47b

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    Hi

    I would like to help. I'm a Christian struggling. I'm in the Uk
     
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  6. Dschamplin5

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    Hey guys! Really struggling with lustful thoughts. Please keep me up in pray.
     
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    Contact me on Skype for a chat. Pm me. Thank you
     
  8. Fotijule

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    Hi everyone, I am new here. I like the Christian tone of this chat. I am in a crossroad of my life. PMO have taken over every bit of what I have as a control over myself. I need help, seriously. I have tried, prayed, wished for it to just disappear but I am far from reaching that goal. Any group created yet? Can I be accepted there?
    Thanks
     
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  9. FranktheTank7

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    Hi @Fotijule. Welcome. Pretty sure that the accountability partners may be communicating through direct message or IRL (in real life) via text messageor phone calls. I didnt reach out to anyone but have found a lot of help elsewhere on the boards by seeking out the information and experiences and suggestions.

    Here are some links that helped me. I’m on day 24 after two relapses prior to joining NoFap boards/community. i had done 26 days and 18 days prior. These links really helped change my habits and attitude. Maybe they will help you?

    Try the course:
    https://kreativevein.thinkific.com/courses/quitporn

    On rationalizations
    https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/53k7t9/a_list_of_all_the_bullshit_you_tell_yourself/

    Timeline
    http://husbandhelphaven.com/porn-addiction-withdrawal-walkthrough/

    Overall guidelines or suggestions
    https://www.reddit.com/comments/35tc2z

    Rebooting info
    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reboot_your_brain

    Scientific brain processes
    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/1-year-simple-tip-which-will-guarantee-success

    Psychological aspects
    https://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex/...d-addiction/?li_source=LI&li_medium=popular17

    This is a lot to take in. I have been reading and learning daily and these links are the culmination of what i have learned here. Try to consider these new ideas little by little. keep an open mind. Better days are ahead.
     
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  10. Dschamplin5

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    Hey guys! I haven't check in a long time. I
    Of course you can be accepted. We are truly stronger together. Ecclesiastes 4:12
     
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  11. Tony_a

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    Hi, would you also be I interested in being my accountability partepa? Im a 46 male Christian. Please let me know.
     
  12. FranktheTank7

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    Here is a good video / speech i was sent. Maybe it will be helpful for you guys.

     
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  13. shmoe2003

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    if you guys are starting a christian group id like to be part of it.
    Thanks!
     
  14. RagingDemon

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    I'm willing to help however I can
     
  15. Message me to join WhatsApp Christian group.
     
  16. Jay2012

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    I need an AP as well. I struggle with SSAs
     

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