An easy habit to acquire and an impossible one to break !

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by _Pip_, Jun 23, 2020.

What do you wish to reclaim that PMO has robbed you of ?

  1. fulfilled life

    12 vote(s)
    70.6%
  2. better relationships

    14 vote(s)
    82.4%
  3. joy

    11 vote(s)
    64.7%
  4. Relationship with God

    10 vote(s)
    58.8%
  5. Charisma

    6 vote(s)
    35.3%
  6. Childlike wonder

    9 vote(s)
    52.9%
  7. peace of mind

    10 vote(s)
    58.8%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. _Pip_

    _Pip_ New Fapstronaut

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    “Conscience is a dreadful thing when it accuses man or boy”….Charles Dickens

    Like many of you fellow troops I’m on a journey to kick this dreadful habit out of my life for good. I had the courage and strength to look beyond the beautiful pornstars and the powerful dopamine hits and see PMO for what it really is, the destroyer of lives, a highly addictive habit, one that fuels sex trafficking, destroyer of relationships and the cause of psychological problems.

    My story goes way back 10years ago when I was a 15 year old student in a humble boarding school somewhere in Southern Africa. This school was a very conservative catholic institution and we weren’t even allowed to bring our phones when the school term started. As you know there is always that one kid who will break laws and in this case it was a dear friend of mine who brought his phone to school. Little did I know that tiny device that entertained us so much was going to introduce me to a habit that have taken away so much from my life.

    His gallery was full of downloaded porn videos and since he was the only one with a device, before bedtime we used to gather round his single bed and watch porn together before dispersing each one to his bed with a bulge on trousers to furiously masturbate. That is how it started. Shortly after, I owned a phone myself and it all went downhill from then. What a fool I was a moment wasted to be followed by a lifetime of regret. Sometimes I long so much to go back in-time to change things but I know that’s just wishful thinking. I used to be a mild, good-natured, sweet-tempered, easy-going, foolish, dear fellow. Coming from a beautiful place like Africa I remember how as a little child I had such appreciation of the beauty of sunrise and the splendour of sunset but when I discovered PMO I would spend most of my days either looking for some amongst my friends or watching some.

    I pushed away my favourite habits which were music and reading. I lost all motivation to grind like most men. Not long after I became a bitter young boy, easily irritable and not so pleasant to be around. My grades plummeted, my relationships suffered and I couldn’t even keep a girlfriend longer than 2 months but if there was one thing I actually excelled at, it was PMO. If ever a man’s penis peeled off from excessive masturbation, mine should have done so then.

    But then I realised just how terrible this habit was to me and I joined nofap, and honestly its good to hear and be listened to by strangers, truly the power of brotherhood is one of the great pleasures and strengths of manhood. I’m here because I want to kick this habit out of my life for good, I would like to have a normal relationship with a girl, be passionate about life again, go out there and toil with the rest of man, be a gentleman, loving, kind and graceful . In a nutshell I want to reclaim all that PMO has robbed me of and I don’t intent on giving up or giving in. Thank you all for reading I will write another post to clearly highlight the benefits and setbacks I have experienced on this journey this was just an introduction of my story.
     
  2. Elite_Warrior

    Elite_Warrior Fapstronaut

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    Hey, Brother @_Pip_
    ●You sound different than usual.
    You haven't expect too much from nofap.


    You are easy and simple just went to kick off PMO Habit for a Good Life.

    I usually see that people expect too much in a short period of time when they start Nofap journey.
    That's amazing brother,
    You don't wanna kind of so called Super Powers to ●Attract girls like a magnet.:emoji_joy: and Achieve goals over night.
    :emoji_grimacing:

    BTW Nice voting panel ( specially -
    Reationships with God).

    Brother, Welcome to the Journey of a Good Life:emoji_v:
     
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  3. You have chosen the right path, Pip. Your story is wonderful. You must understand though that this will be difficult. Whenever you need any help, contact us! Psst... Also check out the first post in my journal for tremendously helpful tips and tricks!
     
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  4. Innervision

    Innervision Fapstronaut

    Congratulations on your conscience and commitment! Keep your goals and motivations always on mind and trust on your true values. stay sharp!
     
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  5. _Pip_

    _Pip_ New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much
     

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