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An easy trick to never ejaculate, masturbate or be fooled by any girl

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by modern milarepa, Jun 8, 2021.

  1. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    Current streak: 404 days no PMO, semen retention a nice palindrome number

    One of the easiest ways to never masturbate and to do as you please in terms of being under control of your sexuality is saying no to a very beautiful girl. These two scenarios happened to me on sunday and yesterday respectively

    This sunday
    I said no to a very beautiful blond to have an exclusive sexual relationship with her, she was the one that proposed this to me. Why I said no? Because that is not how sex works, sex involves feelings and especially on the girls side. If a girls does not develop feelings towards you after having sex or see sex as something casual there is something wrong with her. This type of sex will drain your energy away and you will be used as a sexual object.

    I had sex with her once she was very passive and in a way tricked me to have sex with her, telling me how bad her past lover was and that she never had an orgasm in her life this is true but she did not tell the all story. After I confronted her she told me she made a mistake by telling that we should just have a sexual relationship, also she confessed that she always viewed relationships as merely sexual and thought I was just like any other dude, then she implied she was willing to know me besides the sex. But do not make this mistake a girl will not change for you a girl is what she is. I was very attracted to her but I say not to her, it was a difficult decision. That girl has no feelings, she is a sexual predator.

    Yesterday
    A beautiful redhead wrote me saying how beautiful, charming and special I am, we have not met but we have talked through messages. Then she told me she wanted to have sex but wanted me to ejaculate inside her vagina. As you guys know I do semen retention I would not break my streak not even for the most beautiful girl in the world or for a million dollars.

    Also this readhead is domineering; she likes to have control of her man, I know this for the way she acts with me, you can tell when a girl plays games if you have experience. A girl that is domineering in the relationship will also be in the bed and that is just a horrible experience, also how persistent she was over and over again about me ejaculating inside of her, it shows lack of sympathy for your partner in bed and domination traits. Also girls do not even feel when you come inside of them.

    I have told no too many beautiful girls to have sex, because who they are as a person and I felt this has been the most difficult thing of my life, my father who is an expert on girls has also helped me to make these choices and I’m extremely blessed to have him.

    Conclusions
    -If you say no to a beautiful girl, you can do anything.
    -Learn to analyse women otherwise they will eat you up. Women are the real sexual and relationship predators not men.
    -There is always a better girl do not be afraid to leave anybody I just found 20 more girls to date and 3 girls better than these two in less than two days but still I’m going to wait for someone better.

    *no hate towards girls by the way, there are some good ones out there
     
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  2. Cyberpunk3000

    Cyberpunk3000 Fapstronaut

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    This man is spitting facts like fire

    The ejaculation inside thing is psychological/mental rush or high than a physical sensation for women who want that. Some have that kink which is combined with domineering characteristics.

    But where do you find these women? I need to move to your country man.
     
  3. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    How do you get so many girls?
    Have you got a nice Instagram profile, are you on dating apps?
    Are you engaged in some social activities which makes you meet more women?
     
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  4. Mr Rn

    Mr Rn Fapstronaut

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    Awareness is key
     
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  5. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    dating apps when I feel like using it, I do not spend that much time in them
    sometimes IG, cute girls there
    cold approaching, this is kind of fun. Even do you kind of get use to it.

    Are not you suppose to be reading a monk book, why are you asking this my friend?
     
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  6. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    you are right is psychological, weird kink in deed.
     
  7. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    a monk book? lol

    anyway, do you pm girls on IG?
     
  8. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    sure
     
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  9. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I have no idea tbh, I'm kind of lucky in that aspect
     
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  10. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    I just need to have more courage, then.

    You had your long journey and you can consider yourself grown, mature and ready for the game.

    I am still working out and trying to better myself every day.
    For my future self and for being more appealing for the game.

    I know it may be a complex I have but I don't consider myself ready for a relationship or even have the focus and need to go out and chase women.
    Good times will come anyway, now it's only about myself.

    Don't you agree?
     
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  11. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    maybe I'm young attractive, my energy is high, I'm very funny, also I like to do tricks like acrobatics and movement practices, I'm sensitive. I'm kind of different to most men, that can be attractive too. But I really do not know, who knows what girls think or like.But the hard thing is to find a quality girl. It is so rare

    Yesterday a girl told me she wishes all men were just like me :oops:
     
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  12. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    it is hard, it has taken me years or practice and guidance from an expert like my father to have this type of self control and some knowledge about girls. I still need to learn much more.

    I will say you need to have your looks, money in order and masturbation should not even be a problem. Because women that is the real fight being alone is very easy but dealing with girls that is a hard battle they are born with the natural skill to manipulate men also most girls control sex like nobody else they can avoid masturbation and sex for years with no sweat. They do not think when you are with them on how hot you are. They are thinking the way to control you, they are always thinking in ways to be in control in the relationship, even do they really enjoy sex, sex does not cloud their thinking.

    you need to be in complete control of yourself otherwise girls will suck the life out of you
     
  13. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    sex with beautiful girls even if you have sex with a different girl every day or if you find the girl of your dreams it is not so special. it can be fun for a while but that is it. Take my word I lived the dream I had sex with any type of girl I ever dreamed of. Do not think so much about this, there are much special things in life. Being alone if you manage it well, without constantly thinking about girls is even better, freedom and mental peace has no price.
     
  14. Cyberpunk3000

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    I wouldn't say its a weird kink.
    Its genetically hardwired in a woman to get the sperm from a man.
    Now combine that as a kink.
    That would give the highest buzz for her. And there is a borderline risk involved if she is not on pills or iud. Some seek thrill for the high. So one act fulfills two of her kinks with highest buzz.
     
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  15. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    not that weird in terms of weirdness but also the obssesion like that was sex for her just feeling your sperm inside of her it was strange. The only girls that have been so obssesed with ejaculation that I have talked to are nymphomaniacs, who also happen to have more fetishes.
     
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  16. Aléxandros

    Aléxandros Fapstronaut

    it is a long path, but at least I am moving.
     
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  17. Asgardian36

    Asgardian36 Fapstronaut

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    404 Days, Holymolly thats awesome bro! Congrats! Thanks for showing us that its possible. You rejected beautiful girls for someone better? You have balls, dude :D

    Which 3 things helped you most in achieving your streak?
    I guess one of the things is the guidance from your dad.
     
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  18. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut


    I left the girls empty handed, I still do not find someone I see myself with. But who knows maybe someone will come, you never know.

    3 things
    1.Being relaxed: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/365-days-no-pmo.308436/
    2. Awareness: https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?threads/relapsed-after-almost-3-years.309454/
    3. Saying no to beautiful girls who want to be with me but have bad personality or undesirable traits
    *extra: Working out
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...f-pmo-addiction-and-sexual-imbalances.310207/
     
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  19. modern milarepa

    modern milarepa Fapstronaut

    I think everything is embodied in this thread this is the real deal. If you can handle girls and act without fear and a clear mind uncloud by lust then you are set up you can avoid porn, PMO, ejaculation anything you want.
     
  20. Asgardian36

    Asgardian36 Fapstronaut

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    man, thank you so much, man! Those 3 things are very helpful, they are not a surprise or anything but they are valuable advice, thanks a lot.
     
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