Anal fixation

LostSoul92 · Jan 21, 2019

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So I've been fapping on porn for my whole life (regularly from my 16th year, now I'm 38). The scenes I've been most fascinated with are anal ones. As time passed by, I've started to watch transwoman/CD/TV porn regularly. I've tried gay also but I just don't get aroused on male appearance, the guy must look like a girl and act like sissy. Also I've been watching "normal" male-female porn but it had to be anal scenes... so problem is that I get aroused by anal sex, vaginal just doesn't do anything to me
Now when I've been practicing nofap, I've lost urge to watch porn but I still feel strong desire to have anal sex, in my mind it is like pure approval of a woman that she really wants to have wild unburdoned sex and only that kind of sex makes me aroused. With my last GF I've managed little by little to get to she point here I've would stick my thum up her b-hole while we were in doggy position and only then I would become relaxed so much that I could have sex with her vagina and stay normal (hard)
So now I've been looking for a partner all around and also been looking for CD/TV "girls" so recently I've found one that I really like, and seeing her pictures and thinking of her I get instant boner. I never have that kind of reaction with normal girls...

MY question is: am I gay? I'm definitely BI. Or is it only anal fixation?
because I don't want to be gay, it think of having sex with same girl looking gender like something for fun, something temporal, not something that I can see myself practicing in old age
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Hey man! Story of my life! I was, am still a bit aroused by analsex. But had a couple of streaks mostly between 17 and 14 days with 1-4 days of masturbating to porn between, for a year. I didn´t think about sex or porn at all when on a streak. And out of nowhere I was more aroused by vaginal sex, was not before. I also started to watch anal scenes when I was 12, so when I was a kid I thought it was super normal haha. I really feel you, now im more aroused by vaginal but it took me a long time. If you are gay I doubt, if it turns out you are thats ok also.

Let me tell you a short story I heard from a norwegian podcast. its crazy.. haha

There was this guy hitting his head really hard, forgot everything. So the podcast was about him talking about how he is experiencing everything for the first time for the second time. Suddenly he said that he would like to try having sex with a male just to try it. He was hardcore straight before the accident.

So maybe everything is all in our heads, this anal thing was for me. Im still a bit aroused by it when watching porn, but for some reason never during sex anymore. When I was at my worst in the pornaddiction I was only aroused by analsex.

Hoped this helps a bit
All the best!

Reboot16 · Jan 21, 2019

Interesting topic. You know I'm quite similar to the OP to a degree with this. I'd much rather do a girl in the butt than in her vagina. I've had the pleasure to do my wife in the butt a number of times during the course of our marriage, and I'll tell ya, if you haven't had anal before, it's exponentially better than vaginal if you lube up properly - way tighter (and smoother feeling, at least to me), and you don't have to worry about pregnancy.

Now OP for your question about CD / TS gurls...IMO it's really hard to define because that's really a gray zone when it comes to gender, at least in my book. I consider myself straight. I'm not interested in masculine men and never have been. BUT if I was single and looking, and came across a very passable TS, as long as she was a total / ultra bottom, I'd date her no problem. I would say that I am attracted to femininity. If a gurl happens to have a "clitty" between her legs that's only there as an ornament, it wouldn't bother me a bit. And that's what I mean by it being a gray zone - you're probably going to get a different answer from any number of people on that, so I'd say don't worry about it, either way.

Svabo · Jan 22, 2019

fredisthebes said: ↑

Women very seldom get pleasure from anal stimulation or anal sex, especially not without giving her V a lot of attention first and during. Does a woman's orgasm get you off? Or the effect that you are having on her body and mind? Are you interested in pleasing a woman or only pleasing yourself? It's a genuine question, as a lot of women are kinky in their own way, but I believe that porn causes men to become selfish lovers. The ultimate pleasure for me is for us to both orgasm at the same time, no fakery porn bullshit but pure mutual pleasure.
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I'm aroused by person being totally submissive and see anal sex as ultimate form of submission if person likes it.

In sex I'm seeking to please myself because when i do it i become aroused and then girl enjoys it to as side effect. For example: i love doggy position and when i see girl liking it, it turns me on. And i like to stick my finger up her anus and if she likes it, it drives me crazy so i become angry and fu*k her more wildly and as result she starts to moan more, i become even more wild. In bdsm it's called a "Dom zone", when you lose your mind and your beast takes over...

For me the ultimate sex is when i can do whatever i want to and being able to fu*k an ass signals me that this is the case (as i described, even only sticking finger in her butt will be enough)

More Jing said: ↑

so to the OP I say if you want to rid yourself of this fixation do yourself a favour and actually do it,good luck
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I did fu*k one ugly girl anally few months back. We meet online and she was kinky as hell and wanted me so bad that she was willing to give me everything. So she was turning me on for days, promising me her ass and that she'll wear pantyhose for me and even i didn't find her attractive at all, I've decided to fu*k her. She did enema ( the proper way to have anal sex) and i come and immediately started to fck her vaginally and was aroused because i knew i can fck her anally too. So after I've destroyed her vaginally, I've decided to take her analy and have orgasm that way. I was very considerate (i am in general that way), lubed her a lot, stretched with my fingers and then fcked for about five minutes. The feeling was nothing special, nothing that i would crave for any more but the feeling of owning her completely that way was beautiful. The moment she started to hurry me up I've lost an interest in sex so i came...
Problem is that CD/TV do like to be penetrated and for a long time (ones I've talked with via chat) so in my mind it means I'll experience that owning for long period of time and it makes me so horny.

Reboot16 said: ↑

Now OP for your question about CD / TS gurls...IMO it's really hard to define because that's really a gray zone when it comes to gender, at least in my book. I consider myself straight. I'm not interested in masculine men and never have been. BUT if I was single and looking, and came across a very passable TS, as long as she was a total / ultra bottom, I'd date her no problem. I would say that I am attracted to femininity. If a gurl happens to have a "clitty" between her legs that's only there as an ornament, it wouldn't bother me a bit. And that's what I mean by it being a gray zone - you're probably going to get a different answer from any number of people on that, so I'd say don't worry about it, either way.
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Same with me.
Problem is that I'm scared of opening that door because i think I'll get hooked on them.

I've been chatting with CD/TVs via planetromeo gay dating site and have few options already: one young extremely cute TV gurl that wants committing relationship which scares the shit out of me because i don't want to be seen as gay. Second offer is from feminine guy who is willing to CD for me and he wants discrete non commiting sexual relationship, like fck friends which scares shit out of me because I'm afraid the sex will be so intense that ill never want to go back seeking girls for sex...

And the problem is that even after 45 days of nofap I haven't had urge for sex, just for an orgasm but with those gays i do feel urge to fck them...

I really dunno what to do, i funny want to be gay

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