Another thing

Well, I stoped faping 26 days ago without knowing, that there is a acutual Community for such sort of things.
Now it's a little bit disappointing to see, that I'm not the first one having this brilliant idea.

I'm here trying to find more things that make me diffrent from others, not that I don't have such, but than more than better.

So...hi! Nice to meet you. I'm really intrested in what you can tell me about yourself, especially, but not only, those of you who experience high arousal and do not masturbate at all or do not plan to do such in future.

 

Hi, thanks for replying to my post. I already though nobody would do. I mean, it's a 300.000 members community, that's even more than AVEN got.
Ok, possibly it's connected to the time of creating my post, I'm not sure when people of which country are mostly online.

Oh I already have. There are multiple ones.
1.) Orgasms only give short highs but come with decrease of many feelings. This might help when trying to concentrate, but it does not feel good on long term
2.) It costs time
3.) Arousal is way more arousing when not doing masturbation. That might be annoying most times, but it feels better othertimes.
4.) Maybe if I don't do it I can hold by emotional phases longer or even use masturbation to control it. But I'm currently unsure if ther's any connection between

(I guess not doing masturbatrion although I have a constantly high arousal might be easier for me due to several reasons. One is, that I litteraly stopped in a phase of limerance what probably helped cutting old connections. Another is, that I got a couple of mental disorders(ADHD is the only diagnosed, but there is definitly more. Like I seem to have combined type and additionally some mood and sleep disorders) that possibly needed coping before which no may result in a better selfcontrol. And additionally I had some sort of fetishes connected to not dealing with my arousal what means that I was mentaly prepared to it.
The last one is interesting cause my phantasies connected with this actually ended in another kind of feeling (such like the ones connected with Oxytocin), which I tried to avoid because it involved some sort of lose of control and strange shit which I could not get along with. But when I then entered that face of limerance I entered that phase differently, I actually started from the Oxytocin part and it was deireable what then seemed to allowed me to manage that part of my phantasies I yet avoided and love it.
I reallized that this part was literally what I always wanted and that masturbation and orgasm just kept that away from me)

 

I never watched porn and never understoof, why people liked it.
I used to phantazise with help of fetish-stories and with non-pornographic imagery.(Mostly photos)

Yeah, that's something I did. Like literally all the time.

That feeling in your genital region, maybe causing your muscls to tension and whatever. Like a itch, but a little bit diffrent and much stronger.

Oh ok, that explains lower count of interactions.

Yeah, that's possibly true. As many people won't subscribe to this subforum as they don't want to be alerted by every new member creating their welcome posts.

It's based on a domination/submission thing. Speaking of "chastity".

There is definitly to much data at the moment to make any cause-effect conclusions, all I can speak of is correlation.
Depending on correlation it's more the other was round. Since I stopped masturbation, those things got more "worse"(appear more often). But this might be connected to the overall situation, like limerance and other things that occured.