Hey! I know the title is a little weird. But I think an AP is someone who you want to trust to some degree and also feel understood and maybe have at least the same basic views on some topics. I'll list some things below that I feel define my viewing of the world around me, the people in it and lastly also my own sexuality and this journey on NoFap. I don't want you to be on the same page on all these, but I'd be super happy if some of it resonated with you and you'd drop me a message Cheers to all of you R. Atheist. Will never tolerate fascism, racism, LGBTQ+ phobia, other hate towards people just for being who they are. I'm a white straight cis male in IT (yes I love coffee) and I know I'm ridiculously privileged. Man who cries occasionally and is proud of that. I reject gender stereotypes. Love music. Everything would suck without it. I'll always speak my mind but always in a respectful way. I love discussions and learning from others. NoFap because I want to get away from porn. It's an addiction for me and I want my sexuality to be free and a beautiful thing to share, unshaped by industries and dehumanized beauty standards.