Any Age Accountability Group

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by Halibut, Apr 15, 2019.

  1. freedomispossible

    freedomispossible Fapstronaut

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    day 12 for me. This has been one of my longest streak since i first started MO and definitely my longest streak in nofap. i don't know how to explain. i've barely had urges in the last 12 days, there's so many reasons which i don't know. i've been busy with exams this past week and a half or maybe that quote i copied from someone in the group and put it in my signature boosted me. Who knows and i'm not that bothered as long as my streak carries on. good luck everyone.
     
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  2. Legit1

    Legit1 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys... So I relapsed today at 23 days. All I can say is that I'm keeping it at 1 relapse, I don't care if the chaser effect hits me with everything it has, I just won't relapse again.

    I've relapsed today because I couldn't take all this, mentally wise. I can tell that my brain went into panic mode because I kept forcing NoFap, and it wasn't just that. I also started to do a colon detox because I want to cleanse myself up and strengthen my body, so I guess this added to the stress and let my brain know that change is coming with brute force. After I relapsed, I knew 100% that these changes are drastic, because I'm forcing myself to change. And change is always something new and scary, because I've always used to this habit in order to forget everything.

    Also, I still feel very determined with this recovery because I honestly couldn't sleep without admitting that I relapsed. A part of me was telling me to stop coming to this site because admitting a relapse is tough, but I shook that off and forced myself to admit myself. I can't think so negatively when this group has actually helped me multiple times with this habit.

    Will get back on track, guys! I need to do this for the betterment of myself.
     
  3. GettinBackmyLife

    GettinBackmyLife New Fapstronaut

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    I have read the rules and would like to become an AP
     
  4. Legit1

    Legit1 Fapstronaut

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    Day 2. So I did kept my relapse as just 1 relapse. It'll be very stupid of me if I went on a binging streak just because I ruined a 23 day streak.

    Today I had sexual dreams with girls I don't know, it was pretty unusual because... well, it was basically an orgy. Once I woke up I was weirded out, because I would never be a part of something like that, it's just not my thing. Anyways, I will come back just as strong as my last streak. Once I ended that last streak I felt like an idiot to be honest, because it just wasn't worth it, it just felt like your normal session without any spark as usual. Best of luck, guys! Add another day to your streaks.
     
  5. pourover24

    pourover24 Fapstronaut

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    Made it through - and been doing very well the past few days. Need to keep it up though. Its helped to have some time off and to be around family. @Halibut Hope you're doing well!
     
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  6. christian17

    christian17 Fapstronaut

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    I have read the rules and would like to become an ap
     
  7. Halibut

    Halibut Fapstronaut

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    Hey all, I relapsed a couple of days ago

    Back on track now - I have written out some key dates in 2020 and what day abstaining from PM I will be on.

    E.g On my 25th birthday I will be on day 275!

    Hope you all had a grand Christmas and have a great new year!
     
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  8. Caseyjay26

    Caseyjay26 Fapstronaut

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    I’m looking for an accountability partner! Anyone who can help/ needs some support!
     
  9. pourover24

    pourover24 Fapstronaut

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    @Halibut great to hear from you brother. I, unfortunately, am here to report a relapse, but I'm getting immediately back on track. I am 36-5 over the last 41 days - and am hoping I'll be able to go the remainder of January without any issues.

    I have been stressed out this week with trying to get work going again, but the kids also not being back at school and just feeling fully out of rhythm. I can't wake up and get out of bed in the morning. I know that waking up is actually supposed to get easier the longer you are able to go without a relapse. I just need to make the right choices and make sure my internet is closed at the proper times when I am stressed out - otherwise, I quickly turn to porn.
     
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  10. MillennialFalcon92

    MillennialFalcon92 New Fapstronaut

    Hello fapstronauts! I am new to this forum, but I have looked through this thread and I am very inspired by what I see. I have read the rules and would like to join the waiting list if at all possible. Thank you and best of luck to all!
     
  11. kym

    kym Fapstronaut

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    I have read the rules and I would like to join the AP .
    Am 27 years old from Kenya,I have been on and off in this nofap journey and its now 5yrs lying to myself that I will get better.i have come to realize that I can't do it on my own..I need help from the rest of the nofap group to get better
     
  12. Legit1

    Legit1 Fapstronaut

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    So I've been going deeper and deeper into this addiction where I'm gaining more strength to the point I'm becoming more sharp when urges or withdrawals arrive. Long story short, this addiction has messed me up on my calcium levels which is why I have TMJ, weak knees, and a root canal in the past. I'm grabbing the bull by the horns this time for sure, and hopefully I can kick this addiction by this year. Best of luck, guys! Let's get serious and recover RIGHT NOW!
     
  13. chimax7

    chimax7 New Fapstronaut

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    I have read the rules and would like to join the AP. If I could get on the waiting list, that would be awesome. This thread has been inspiring to read and I wish everyone in this thread the best of luck in their NoFap journey.
     
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  14. L1ster

    L1ster New Fapstronaut

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    I have read the rules and would like to become an AP.

    I have browsed a little off your thread and I think such an initiative can be a great way for staying committed while also supporting others. I am impressed that you, OP and everyone participating, kept this thread (and your commitment to NF) up for so long.

    I am rather new to NF, I probably made myself fully conscious of it around 3 months ago. Though, I have not engaged with it completely committed (my record is almost 3 weeks)... before now.

    Beyond NF, I am also interested in music, programming, a tiny bit of history, philosophy and politics. Though probably do to me being addicted to porn as well as gaming and computers (mainly smartphone), I spend far less time on my actual interests than what would make me feel satisfied & accomplished. I also experience periods when this mindless obsessive hedonism makes it difficult for me to complete school tasks. This usually happens when I, for whatever reason, feel school being especially threatening — such as when a critical assignment/exam comes up, igniting in me a fear of failure, which ironically enough increases the chances of it occurring, and makes me catch up on most of the work during the last day(s) before submission. (Not fun).

    I have made the choice to improve myself and my life while trying to support others wanting to do the same. So, if I stay here for a substantial amount of time, please remind me of this ought I just made (if there's ever a need for it). Hence, may I please ask whether you could add me to the waiting list if possible?

    btw, I have never participated in a group like this and I am wonder if you are still doing member ranking? I imagine competition being a powerful motivator..
    I wish you all the best and that you pursue your ambitions!
     
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  15. pourover24

    pourover24 Fapstronaut

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    Welcome! @kym @L1ster @chimax7 @MillennialFalcon92 ! Glad you guys are interested in joining up! @Halibut is your guy in terms of getting you guys set up and on the leaderboard. I myself haven’t been as active as I’ve wanted to lately, but ideally, I want to be posting on here every other day. I’m excited to be alongside you guys in this journey.
     
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  16. pourover24

    pourover24 Fapstronaut

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    I’m really concerned about tomorrow. I’ll be home alone and lately, I’ve had some bad days when home alone. If I stay focused and keep the internet shut off when I don’t need it, I should be fine. But lately, I’ve been quite lazy. I can’t afford to be lazy. Also, I’ve built in some rewards for myself for getting to certain milestones. I just reviewed my progress and seeing the potential for a reward encouraged me to push on.
     
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  17. Legit1

    Legit1 Fapstronaut

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    I relapsed 3 days ago and damn... I'm really getting fed up with my relapses. The pleasure I get is so dull that it ends up frustrating me pretty badly, because I think it will be a good relapse but instead it's so dull and boring. I really need to learn that that pleasure will never bring happiness
     
  18. Jagliana

    Jagliana Fapstronaut

    For any PA's interested in having someone to talk to, check in with and a safe place to talk about all things recovery... my husband @Wade W. Wilson, 36 yrs old - who has been in real recovery for almost two years now (will be two years on Jan 29th), has created a dedicated Discord channel for PA's, all are welcome to join and he is looking forward to getting to know each of you.

    You can join the channel by clicking this link: https://discord.gg/gXPuU9q >> This is for you if you are looking for honest help and accountability in real-time. To think, these days I, the betrayed can vouch for him because he has been putting in the work and became a completely different person during the course of this recovery, I've witnessed it firsthand.
     
  19. Halibut

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    Hey all - I am, looking to reboot the group again and add some new people

    Pretty much going to restart the leader board - starting afresh for 2020

    If you are interested in joining please send me a private dm so I can more easily add you

    @Legit1 and @pourover24 I will keep you guys on board as you have maintained active throughout! (cheers guys)

    I am also reducing the max group size down to 10 to try a closer knit of AP's

    I will update the leaderboard at least once a week

    Thanks
     
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  20. GKDOES

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    i am 21 med school college droput lets connec we might BE great AP
     

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