Any guys who got into the dating game when they were over 21?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by GoldenFighter, Mar 17, 2019.

  1. Capt. U

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    At the time I saw it as a herculean task and I was also sick and tired of looking at porn. I used to believe that once I started having sex that I would no longer need to spend time watching so much porn that seemed to fill the emptiness inside of me.
    Sadly, even when I was in a committed relationship I still had the urges to masturbate to porn whenever my partner did want to have sex with me or I just wanted to bust a quick nut.
    But yeah it was just something that I really wanted to experience.
     
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  2. DeliciousMarzipan

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    First girlfriend at 25, due to anxiety and insecurity. Relationship ended some months ago, after two years.

    I don't have any problem with the age itself, it's just that without enough experience I'm completely clueless. Girls seem to ignore me (romantically), and I don't know what to do about it, other than give up and focus on other things.
     
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  3. Trevelyan357

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    That is an approach that can be useful in many other areas of your life as well. For example, I am job hunting right now. That is another skill that requires a LOT of trial and error to get right.
     
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  4. Newlife33

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    That is a great point, it carries across a lot of areas. Never going to get good at something till you try it.
     
  5. rivarol

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    I felt in love with a girl when I was around 15, she was kind to me but had no concern. I loved her for years, and then I get over her but lost my interest for love for a few years. I lost my virginity at 26, very unexpected, with a very beautiful 18 year old girl, I was the second for her. I also had my first kiss with her. Then we had an incredible beautiful mistress relationship (her family is strict muslim, I am atheist) for a few months. A few years later I had another girl for a few months (muslim again, by chance). Now I am 35. I am 6'2 and 188 lbs. It might be true that many women prefer taller guys, but tallness alone doesn't help you at all. Your social skills (confidence, charm, clever, humorous, pushing forward with chutzpa...) and your social reputation (including your job, money, friends...) is what really matters.
     
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  6. Capt. U

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    Job hunting too, man it sucks but tryna not living pay check to pay check is better.
     
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  7. Depressed&Out

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    I'm 35 and never once even close to any intimacy - I rarely interacted with women until the last few months.

    You will become even more depressed if you leave it very late like me. (Yes, I'm trying to get laid, but it's hard when you live with your family and have PIED!!)
     
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  8. R3dFlY

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    Hey friend . First of all, Everyone has their own timelines. And with that I mean that you should not rush yourself. DO EVERYTHING FOR THE BENEFIT OF YOURSELF AND ONLY WHEN AND IF YOU FEEL LIKE IT. Sorry i had to cap that line just to be clear lol. For example In my 22 years of the life I have lived I have never been into a relationship with a woman, even though I have already had sex ( with a prostitute). I kinda regret it because I let myself get pressured into it by my friends that were there with me that night. I also want to admit that i also never have been into a relationship even though I had have chance to be in one, because i wanted to focus on myself and my goals.
    You should know whether you really want a relationship or just want to get laid. When u have decide, do it BUT only IF YOU WANT to. DONT LET ANYONE ELSE PRESSURE YOU INTO IT. LOVE yourself first and dont rush your own timeline. It is never too late.
     

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