Any help with edging??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Talalelsayed, Apr 28, 2019.

  1. Talalelsayed

    Talalelsayed Fapstronaut

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    Do you have any advice to do with edging, i am trying to stop myself from PMO. porn sub pushes me to my limits. I still have one week to hit my 90 days free.
     
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  2. JewishDude

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    That's a great question! I believe many fappers relate to this subject (including myself).
    What I understood is that you must not, under any circumstances, touch your D for more than a split second (none is way better...).

    You probably hear a VOICE (in capitals, because it's laud and always trying to convince) inside which says the following: "C'mon buddy, just a little bit does no harm" or "You worked so hard to get this far, some rubbing the tree is fine".

    If you succumb to the voice, one thing will lead to the other, and you'll find yourself over the edge in a few minutes time. The next day you'll fell like SHIT and wonder why in hell did you do that.
    NOT worth it, be strong (90 days is around the corner...).

    Hope to be helpful, all the best
     
  3. ssha6451

    ssha6451 Fapstronaut

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    Don't do it. Simple.
    If you're going to do this PMO thing. Do it 100%. There is no middle ground.
     
  4. Sammyforthewin

    Sammyforthewin Fapstronaut

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    Yes, edging is not that good...You can also get to PMO if you're edging too much :/
     
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  5. romlel

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    When the idea to edge come... kill it, change it or whatever but don't let it grow!
    Stay away from edging materials if its too hard on you. Brainwash yourself reading about rebooting : )
     
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  6. Trying to avoid fantasising should help. Even fairly "innocent" fantasies can get you in trouble.
     
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  7. Talalelsayed

    Talalelsayed Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot for all your replies.
    I spent time with some friends out and hope that i can pass this terrible night.
     
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  8. Younameit

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    watching porn while edging is literally the same as a relapse bro, it's called nofap, so you're not supposed to fap
     
  9. IGY

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    What are these p/subs? It is quite likely that these are enough to cause you to reset your counter on their own. :oops: For example, so-called bikini babes or scrolling through underwear or pictures of feet, if that turns you on. All resets buddy.

    If you have been edging, then each occurrence requires a reset of your counter also. Edging is worse than PMOing. Note the explanation from the scientist Gary Wilson on the catastrophic consequences of edging. Click the link for full info...

    https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/reb...-masturbate-edge-or-watch-porn-without-orgasm

    Some men attempting the rebooting process believe that as long as they avoid ejaculation, they are successfully rebooting. This twisted logic leads them to endorse an unhelpful practice common to Internet porn users, called edging. This is masturbating up to the edge of orgasm, then stopping to cool things down, then revving up again. Three common versions of edging:
    1. Watching porn without masturbating
    2. Masturbating while viewing porn, but not ejaculating
    3. Masturbating without porn and without ejaculating
    Since a reboot is defined as no porn or porn substitutes 1 & 2 make no sense. For those trying to overcome problematic porn use, edging while viewing porn (or fantasizing about porn) is far worse than simply having an orgasm and getting it over with. Why is that? It all comes down to dopamine... ... ...
     
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  10. JPDrive

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    ^^ This ^^

    I am learning today that there isn’t as much separating P from P-Subs as I thought.
     
  11. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut

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    Exactly right! You could look at hardcore porn that doesn't arouse you for some reason. Yet a p/sub may drive you wild! :eek:
     

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