Any Men have Orgasms without Touching

Yes! That happened to me yesterday and I'm only 18 days into it. It was a mild orgasm is how I'll describe it and I didn't retain all semen. I pre-ejaculated just a little bit, but I did feel tingling all over my body and my head got really hot afterwards. I didn't touch myself or watch porn so it's pretty crazy and that's the 1st time that has ever happened to me. I made a thread about it earlier but no-one has offered any advice on this.

 

This is so weird. I've tried this many times but it's simply impossible to have orgasm with no hands involve

 

yeah it sounds scary. If this happens in public, it will be ... very awkward

 

Yes it honestly gave me energy instead of the typical drowsiness if I had masturbated. I know everyone's goals are different, but my goals are only to abstain from porn, masturbation, and retaining semen as well. My opinion on what happened to us is I think maybe after so much build up, the energy needs to go somewhere and hence why we have wet dreams. It's natural and some people don't like to admit it but they happen. I think maybe there's a way you can channel that energy back up to be distributed throughout the body when this happens. I also think you can control it if you meditate and really focus on your body reactions. Overall It made me feel great afterwards and continued my day with no loss. My goal now since I know they will get more intense with the longer I can abstain is to retain all semen... However look into retrogade ejaculation because that's the only thing I'm concerned about with this. Won't count it as a reset in my book as I haven't lost any benefits I've gained so far.

 

Definitely and I have been researching meditation already so I'm a step ahead! Will run some experiments and post a thread in the future over this.

 

A few times in this 90 day reboot challenge of mine I came to an edge of O, or close to it, by accident. Totally hands free. Either by kegels, exercise, fantasizing or focusing on tension in my body. I stopped myself from going forward and actually having an O because the whole point of my particular challenge is to abstain from M and intentional O in general. And I do see this as MO. I mean you are still stimulating yourself / your genitals with intention to have an O. That's the definition of M - to stimulate one's own genitals with intention to cause pleasure. It doesn't have to be physical stimulation only for it to be considered M. So I prevented myself from actually getting till that point cos of those reasons, to not brake my rules I have committed to. And I would argue that if somebody's intention is to stay way from M then they should not attempt these hands free methods either, cos it's still M. If only staying away from physical M'ing is your goal and not from M in general then go on.

I'm sure I could achieve O with any of those methods I mentioned above totally hands free. Whether it would be with ejaculation or not I have no clue. Some build ups felt the same as when I would ejaculate and some felt different. So I think I could do this without ejaculation. I am planning to try these hands free methods of MO once I finish my 90 days Hard Mode. After I got close I started to research about that stuff cos it was kinda new to me. I found some stuff about "thinking off", "coregams" and breath, visualization and energy Os as well as some methods how to achieve them. I'm kinda excited to try once I finish my 90 days.

Apart from that I have had very little experience with hands free O's. I remember I used to MO as a kid by using combination of something similar to sit ups and focusing on tension of urgency in my body. Kind of like falling tension of urgency I learned how to replicate with just my mind. I remember them being very intense. Then once I discovered that hands work better and faster I stopped doing that method. I will have to revisit it soon to see if it still works for me as an adult. I also had hands free Os without touching myself, with ejaculation, when being super turned on from watching P. Back in a day when I was still kinda new to P.

I did not only had P addiction, I also had M addiction before joining NoFap. So that's something I have to learn to manage. It's been good so far as I am on 90 day Hard Mode challenge. But once I stop I do not want to give up MO up for life. Maybe once I find a woman yes, but not otherwise. Maybe limit it somewhat tho. I do not want to deteriorate back in my old addictive habits of MO'ing multiple times a day until it hurts. So I am thinking creating a rule for myself that I could only MO without touching myself could keep my MO in healthy amounts. Cos I probably would not be able to achieve O forcefully that way. I'm thinking accumulated energy have to be pretty high for that to happen. Cos it never happened with me before normally, only when I went long time on Hard Mode I started to notice getting close from fantasies, visualization, breathing, etc. So that's like the big motivation for me to learn about how to O hands free - to menage my excessive MO addiction. If I draw that "you are allowed to MO as much as you want but no hands" boundary it should keep me somewhat safe.

 

The way I see it it's about intention. Whether one is intentionally creating this feeling aka M'ing or whether it happens on itself. I would not advocate suppressing something that comes on itself naturally. Neither would I advocate helping it to develop any further with fantasies and stuff, if it comes up naturally, if one's goal is not to M. At that point it turns from just letting things happen to wanting it to happen and stimulating yourself, which is M.

I think "indulgence" is a strong word. At least from my point of view, maybe not yours. I would just call it "enjoyment". It's kinda like wet dreams in my opinion. That's what body naturally does. I don't think we should try to suppress them generally speaking. Or if we do then for right reasons, like feeling very drained for stuff. Not because they are wrong, which they are not. So when they happen I do enjoy them. But working to cause them intentionally as much as possible is a different thing in my opinion. I guess you could call it indulgence into wet dreams. But again, depends for one's goals and boundaries they draw for themselves.

Maybe for you. Never happened for me naturally. Few times I got close it was because I did something. So I yet to learn if and how I can replicate the same things and results intentionally. Lucky you.

I'm sure you mean energy? I'm pretty sure sperm can't physically go up the spine. You probably know this but just saying, it's confusing to call it sperm. Sexual energy, Chi, life force, Kundalini, nerve cell impulses, etc... not sperm.

Ok, got ya. Never had hands free O without ejaculation. I jet to find out if I can. Still have a few days left in my 90 day challenge so I will find out soon enough. I would like to be able to make this happen cos it would be pretty awesome to enjoy Os without having to ejaculate, and still maintain semen for energetic/spiritual/hormonal reasons.

 

Indeed. All tho I hope you are not implying that all craving and all escape from reality is a bad thing. Cos I don't believe it is, if we can keep it in healthy amounts. We can even use it for our advantage in life. Most of us in this forum are addicts and craving/escape from reality is our middle name. So I guess it's good to stay away from that kind of mindset at least for a while, until we get our life in control. But not necessarily a bad thing on itself, in my opinion.

Is there any particular thing you do to get the O coming? Like focus, visualization or something to induce it? Or does this feeling comes exclusively on itself and all you have to do is just allow it? Also, are you doing some type of visualization to get till O? Like imagining the energy to flow up your spine or something? Or again, just spread, relax and let it do it's own thing?