I come pretty quickly when I'm with someone. I've had this before I did nofap, but recently had sex with a girl and it seems to have intensified. I used to do these things where I would focus on something else, usually a castle or the incredibly unsexy sport of baseball. But I don't really want to do that anymore. As a kid, I could maintain a boner doing this, but now it's just a turn off. Also, it feels kinda pathetic. I want to be in the moment with a lady, where we both enjoy ourselves, not focusing on baseball just to please her. Does anyone have tips? I'm mostly interested in lasting during actual, vaginal sex. I've got a pretty big member and it's very easy to get over stimulated.