I "lost" my virginity (I don't think men have virginity, that's dumb, virginity has to do with paternity of children, historically) at 21 in a quite quick and matter of fact got it out of the way sort of way. I didn't feel any different after I did it as before, except I wanted to fuck more. If you talk to enough women and go out enough you're liable to trip into some pussy eventually. You're making it a bigger thing than it is. Or maybe not, I'm not inside your head, anyway. Go listen to the Beige Phillip Podcast on itunes, get all your tips on game. Lay five bricks a day, talk to five women a day, eventually you'll have a solid foundation for talking to chicks. AND YES, testosterone starts dropping off at 30-35, but you know, we got testosterone replacement therapy now so who gives a shit about that.