With the help of this forum and the SAA I am approaching 90 days no PMO. I never thought I'd do it after 40+ years of solid acting out. In fact, I've not found it too difficult. I'm now single and, at some point I will be looking for a partner. So my question is, where next? I still objectify women very much. I suffered from PIED and was unable to orgasm during intercourse. I suspect that the years of porn and masturbation have desensitized me a lot. Do people think it's okay to go back to masturbation without porn? I worry, though, that this is a slippery slope to PMO. Do you think it's the right time start looking for a partner again? I still have many of the characteristics that I have while I was on porn, namely self-centered behavior, anxiety and lack of patience. I wonder if I would be best working on these behaviors through the SAA first? Thanks for your thoughts.