Are all Os the same?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself, Sep 26, 2019.

  1. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

    LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself Fapstronaut

    This is a question I ponder (in the subject line).

    Because at the end of my 97 day streak in 2018, I had actual sex.

    Then I found myself in the chaser for a long time.

    And throughout the rest of the year, could not have long streaks.

    It makes me wonder if sex is really different from masturbation for a man.

    The orgasm's impact on the neurotransmitters is the same.

    The stimulation of dopamine.

    But in sex, most people don't do it over and over and over in the same day.

    The addiction to PMO stimulates so much dopamine in the brain,

    it messes up the reward system.

    But having real sex, although far more satisfying,

    ultimately has the same problem for me,

    which is a desire for more after some reset time.

    There I am again, chasing the elusive dragon.

    What torture, this life!

    How much suffering exists?

    I suffer in the pursuit of love, I suffer in the dating scenario,

    I suffer in the afterglow as I wonder when this encounter will happen again,

    I suffer again in the agony of loneliness.

    I suffer inside of the relationship, trying to keep it all together against

    it's natural state of zero inertia.

    I suffer as I seek validation and companionship, to no avail.

    I suffer if I avoid the whole process, pretending to immerse myself in the

    television, trying to convince myself that this is good enough.

    And, I reckon,

    I'll be suffering more tonight

    because I always go peacocking when I sing karaoke....
  2. Michael Sternig

    Michael Sternig Fapstronaut

    You need to be satisfacted and content with your life! Then you won't suffer all those things you listed. For me God/Jesus is the one who gives me that basis of feeling good, being positive and content with my situation. Don't know what that could be for you.
  3. LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself

    LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself Fapstronaut


    Yes, I'm a born-again myself.

    The fact is, I believe, that God created Eve because it "is not good for man to be alone".

    Being happy with myself, the career, and all that stuff is great, but there is a special place

    for a woman in a man's life.

    Contemplating my navel all day aint gonna get it, unfortunately....
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  4. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

    I don't know about sex or religion but not all O's are the same. Chester O's was the cereal for champs, Timmy O's was garbage.
  5. Homelander

    Homelander Fapstronaut

    I don't believe having sex is the same as masturbation, because having real sex did not give PIED to so many people here.
    Of course there are many types of masturbation, but the classic type(solo with porn) is more than obvious to avoid.

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