Are here people with a success stories dealing with really bad fetishes?

I don't believe we ever beat it or conquer it. IMO, we simply control it. If I told you some of my porn-induced fantasies I would probably start a trigger and arouse myself. My fetishes were so outlandish and demeaning that I feel ashamed thinking about them and how aroused they got me. They were so destructive to my brain and I edged to them for hours, day after day. Finally when ED hit me I knew I had a problem. Thankfully this site diagnosed me better than my Dr and my ED is practically gone! I'm happy where I am and for holding out. I quit cold turkey about 6 weeks ago and don't plan on going back. I'm not going to lie but if I think about my fantasies/fetishes I can easily arouse myself. The moment that happens I simply accept it and most importantly I don't feel the need to finish every arousal with an orgasm. Accepting that you will get aroused is the first step. The second is not following through with it. We have to remind ourselves that we're addicts and like putting an alcoholic in a liquor store is a disaster waiting to happen. I didn't necessarily fight the urges or times when my mind wandered but I just didn't buy into anymore. I was not going to let wild fetishes ruin my sex life w my girlfriend or frankly ruin it for me. Sex w my gf is so much better when I just focus on her and stop feeding myself processed porn off of a video screen. Lots of luck in your journey. We are all here for each other.