Are pictures or vids of your SO still considered porn ?

I'm playing Devil's Advocate here and asking a question that may possibly help people out (or I may get flamed to death !). So here goes : is looking at pictures and videos of your SO wrong ? I know it's not physical contact (which is the ideal) and I know it's still masturbation (which won't help with sensitivity issues), BUT you are being turned on by the right person, so the mental associations must still be good. No unrealistic expectations, just as it is, real life, which I don't think is degrading or wrong (as long as they are happy that you take and keep the photos). I work away a lot and stay in hotels so this could be a help to me in a time of need (I'm trying to reboot, but only 1 week in, so this would be kept as a last resort).
Look forward to hearing peoples opinions on this.

 

Thanks for your input folks, I'm trying my best not to fap (and well into my 2nd week without a relapse), and not looked at any pics or vids yet, but my personal objective here is to improve my relationship with my wife and remove my dependency on porn, so the more she turns me on mentally the better. In person is obviously the best, but when I'm working away for 4 days it's very hard (no pun intended !) and boredom can turn one's mind to the personal pleasures. And, just for the record, I never have a problem with ED, just DE (and feeling bad about viewing porn).