Are real women like women portrayed in porn? -Mild trigger warning-

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ray Breslin, Nov 7, 2015.

  1. Are women like they're portrayed in porn? I don't believe that,but a part of my brain does which recently led to a relapse.

    So i've been wondering, do you guys/girls think women in real life are like they're shown in porn?

    I don't mean the physical aspects but they way they act and the stuff they do and supposedly enjoy and crave .
     
  2. DisciplineYourMind

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    Of course not. Porn is an example of what's known as "hyper-reality" where everything is exaggerated so as to seem appealing. That's why the porn industry is so monetarily successful.
     
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  3. Zinc

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    I've had some pornographic like experience, but in general no women are not like in the pornos.
     
  4. slipher

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    Totally depends on the girl.
    But especially the younger generation of girls (who are now around 18') who grew up with porn, tend to be very adventurous since they might take it as some kinda role model wich is pretty sad tbh.
     
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  5. himmelstoss

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    If you're hot they probably get pretty close, otherwise probably not.
     
  6. Booster

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    Sure they do if its normal straight porn, the rest of it is less so. Ive never met a woman into clown sex haha
     
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  7. NoBrainer

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    Just saying, I do not know of any woman who I have met in real life who behaves like the women you see in the pornos. What woman wants to be treated like a depraved whore, while someone pounds away at her for over an hour before they're able to relieve themselves? Porn is there for people to get off to, in fact part of the reason that it's so addictive is because it's so unrealistic. Reality is so different.
     
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  8. iLoveHer

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    This ^
     
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  9. slipher

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    I am terribly sorry...but i do in fact know 2 girls who are exactly what u described :/

    BuT i do agree that this is not the majority wich is a good thing!
     
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  10. wildwood

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    Triggers!!


    No. I used to be like that. I only thought I liked it because it was what "guys wanted". I was treated like a whore. Was it pleasurable? No. It was me trying to be a porn star. By doing what they did in porn I was degraded, humiliated and treated like a "cum dumpster". It's not healthy. Letting someone hurt me like that? No way. No human being wants to be treated like that.
     
  11. rampageingapes

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    Major triggers! DO NOT read this if you feel that you may relapse.

    Yes and no. Wildwood is right, most women do not like to be degraded, however that doesn't mean they don't like to do the stuff that women do in porn. For instance, there are lots of women out there who like perform oral, but they don't like being treated like an object that's only around for your pleasure.

    Everyone has their kinks though, so it's best to experiment a bit and figure out what yours and hers are. My experience has been that most women are open to trying new things, but if you're really unsure as to whether or not what you want to do is okay then its always okay to ask. Also, only do the really kinky stuff with someone that you trust.

    Good luck reaching your goal.
     
  12. IGY

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    That's a tad naïve @wildwood. Some men and/or women crave being "degraded, humiliated and treated like a cum dumpster."
     
  13. DireMerl

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    From a woman's perspective. No. Very few women act like porn stars. There is a difference between being adventurous and wanting to explore different types of fantasies and desires, and being paid to fuck a complete stranger, wearing ridiculous outfits and being covered in sperm.

    Most women are up for a little adventure in the bedroom with a partner they trust. But that doesn't also mean that half the time we haven't shaved out legs and we're wearing granny pants because they were the closest things to hand at seven in the morning when you're rushing for work. Flip that question for yourself. Do you act like a pornstar? Do you have oiled pecks, a huge Wang and the ability to go for hours on many positions with different women at the same time? I have very limited experience with watching real porn so mostly in just going on the vanilla stuff here. I don't know many men who could recreate a porn film. So why would you think or expect women to do the same?

    I know for sure that none of my female friends spend hours putting on lashings of makeup and fish net tights for every sexual encounter. Its just not plausible. Especially for those who have careers or children or just lifestyles.

    In terms of women wanting to be treated like objects or do really kinky stuff that maybe they aren't very comfortable with. I guess either those women are just into that kind of thing (it takes all sorts after all) or they are merely behaving the way society has conditioned them to behave. Lady in the street, freak in the bed. Wife, mother, daughter, worker, cleaner, cook, diy epert, indipendant, intelligent, one of the lads, and still rocking a size 8 figure and perfectly groomed at all times in case someone wants to have sex with us. It's not very realistic in the real world in afraid. But that's a good thing. Embrace the granny pants. If you truly want that kind of relationship then get a blow up doll. Real women are much more fun though. Crazy and hard work. But more fun.
     
  14. wildwood

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    I'm pretty sure my craving stemmed from sex addiction. It's most definitely not naive, most fetishes now are porn induced, stemmed from sexual abuse and other factors as well. It's not healthy to be treated that way. Being punched, hit, called a piece of shit, a dirty whore who only knows how to do one thing. Our culture shapes us. The proof is in the pudding. I'm talking about the extreme, the border line abusive. Mine was extreme, I was physically hurt. That isn't healthy. My tastes are a bit more tame now but no longer involve rape type or physical and mental abuse. I apologize of I didn't specify.
     
  15. IGY

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    I understand that @wildwood, but you said no human being wants to be treated like that and I was saying, some do!
     
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  16. wildwood

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    Let me rephrase that, no human being with a "healthy sexuality" wants to be brutalized.
     
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  17. Forte B.

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    Yes some people do, but they are usually crazy, or vying for attention because that's the only way they think they can feel validated as human beings. They don't REALLY want it. It's porn induced, or in the absence of that, childhood trauma induced.
    There's an underlying cause for these "Hyper-sexual" people, Just like there's an underlying cause for PMO addicts to MO or relapse.

    To answer OP, no. Women don't act like that unless they are hyper sexual, and honestly porn isn't even a good representation of women. I completely agree with @DireMerl. Just ask yourself next time you think about this: If I were to have sex tomorrow, would I be able to do it like a pornstar? (I.E raging erection instantly, being able to do it for an hour non-stop and multiple times a week or even everyday). The answer will be no every time.
     
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  18. IGY

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    Agreed. :)
     
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  19. Handzfree

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    I think the big thing to remember is that porn is "entertainment" and "acting". Is the physical act the same (PIV)? Yep. tab A goes into slot B. But the difference is real life. Arms cramp, things don't line up and end up missing. While there are people who may act or think they are porn stars, the reality is, that world doesn't exist.

    Just like the car chase and gun fight in an action flick... the cars, jump fly and race through streets without any consequences. Gun battles rage for minutes, and multiple shots fired... on one hit.

    So yep.. the physical act is real, but guys lasting for hours and women who get hammered mercilessly without any discomfort just isn't real.

    I think Wildwood and DireMerl's posts are golden... The reality is trying to create a life in a fantasy world of porn is unsustainable... it degrades and destroys.
     
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  20. IGY

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    This is a frank exposé of the sad reality of sexual debauchery for some. Thank you @Mr, cold Turkey for your insight.
     

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