Are women aware of approach anxiety of guys

They know it takes courage to approach them, but that doesn't mean they will excuse guys that like them and never make their move.

In my experience, if a girl is giving you signals and you like her, then you should approach her as soon as possible. I lost many opportunities because of the whole "first she needs to know me" or "first I need to become her friend". I would stuck myself in friendzone and think one day she would magically go on date with me lol.

 

That's why so many women say confidence is more attractive in a man than looks, body, or even money. The man with the balls to go straight up to a woman he's never met and say "hey there, I noticed you and wanted to say hi" (in a genuine and direct but non threatening way of course) -- that's a rare man especially today when so many hide behind a screen. At that point the woman has to deal with you in the moment -- whether that be to reject you outright, make polite conversation and leave, or go farther. She ultimately controls how far the interaction will go but as long as you're OK with any outcome you still have won.

 

I doubt they are aware of how extreme it is generally - studies have shown to ask a woman out (and the anxiety/fear it creates) stimulates the same part of your brain as actual, physical torture.

It’s not easy, at all, but if you make eye contact with a woman you have about 7 seconds to begin to approach or you begin losing value in her eyes (evolutionarily). Most will hum and haw and waver and think about what to say and then go. If you can go immediately you are in the top percentile of confidence and it matters far less how attractive you are.

 

They don't give a Damm. It's like saying if the deer cares if the tiger is anxious to hunt it.

If a man is anxious to approach a girl that is a man a girl has no interest to be with.

 

Stop caring so much about the splash

 

It's not simply a technique or having balls. It's about having your life in order. Your mind, emotions and energy in order.

If you are a loser, fapper, can't handle your emotions, lazy, out of shape, broke then you have no chance with girls

You need to be the best version of yourself then approaching is no problem.

There's no shortcuts, secret or technique to be a quality man.

Approaching is the easiest thing to do when dealing with a girl and if you consider that hard you have not done even 1% of what is require to deal and keep a girl.

 

Bro you need to stop with the cursing and talking about ejaculation and impregnating girls if you keep talking like this your streak will be over in days or hours.

You are getting out of hand also thinking too much about girls. Do that when your streak is stronger. Just an opinion take it or leave it.

 

Ok course, it's more easy to charm a girl on real life. Cold approach has many advantages than lets say using a dating app

 

Anybody can get laid if they know how to cold approach and seduce. But if you don't have your life in order women and lust will eat you alive. Even if you are married, like some men here with porn addiction that are married.

It's not about having sex or have a girl. It's about being with a girl and making something positive out of it.

Otherwise you are just living 3d real life porn.

 

Many, if your energy and mind are in order that is very attractive.

But relationship and women require money also if you are out of shape that is not very appealing.

Relationships require practical and mundane assets.

 

The problem is you think there is a method and there's no method to approach the real problem is who you are as a person and your friends.

Any man with good energy and control of his emotions will naturally know how to approach a girl.

Try to fix your life and your mind then you will naturally be able to approach.

 

Some women may know; many others, not. Women are sort of like men that way - some are intuitive, sensitive, and smart; others, are dumb and dense as doorposts. Men and women alike. One cannot categorize the group as a whole in such a question.