What are your thoughts on being aroused while chatting with someone attractive? I find it’s easy for me to be aroused when I get attention from someone I’m interested in. One implication of that is that the other party could also be aroused by said attention. Is it prude-ish to be cautious about such arousal? Is it foolish to encourage arousal when that can distract from building the relationship? How do you all approach this type of situation?