Asian Massage Parlors...

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by CJ22, Oct 26, 2019.

  1. CJ22

    CJ22 Fapstronaut

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    So I've been visiting AMP's for quite some time now and getting happy endings. Maybe 3 - 4 times per month. This behavior completely goes against my religious morals and consistently leaves me feeling ashamed and foolish afterwards. I have struggled with PMO and PIED for about 11 years now. I have had lengthy relationships during that time but after my most recent relationship ended in 2017 I started searching out these sketchy massage places.

    I think I do it to avoid the feeling of failure. I mean as long as you have the money the girls are satisfied right? I have never had full intercourse with any of these women, only manual stimulation (and oral on 2 occasions). I have to stop this shit! I'm spending around $500 each month with whores.

    Not sure if any of you guys deal with this or have dealt with this in the past, but any help would be appreciated. I'm starting to feel an attachment to one massage girl in particular, but I know that there's nothing truly there. It's just my urge for a real connection that I'm too afraid to go out and find because idk if I can sexually please a woman now.

    Peace.
    CJ
     
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  2. cleanliving81

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    Think of it this way if you stopped now by this time next year you will have an extra $6,000 in your bank account
     
  3. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    So, can you just get an actual massage in those places or is just a censored brothel?
     
  4. Randy

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    The usual thing is a one hour massage all over ending in a sensual massage which becomes a penis massage. Many of these places have a table shower at the beginning which can get kinda sexy too. Yes you do get a real massage. It doesn't take an hour to get jacked off.
     
  5. ELITE2BE

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    Knowledge or experience?
     
  6. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    So it is a diet brothel.
     
  7. Hold it in

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    I'm probably very lucky I live in a small town with no Asian massage parlors
    Good Lord it'd just be another thing I'd have to fight, lol
     
  8. Jup1t3r

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    Diet Brothel
    Brothel Light
    Brothel Zero
    I Can’t Believe it’s not Brothel
    Love these word games!

    On a serious note though, @CJ22, don’t go in there. Stop lying to yourself. Stop making excuses for behavior that you know to be wrong.
     
  9. Randy

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    Experience - About 20 visits over 4 years, but I'm not doing it anymore.
     
  10. ELITE2BE

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    Good to hear that you stopped. Stay strong brother.
     
  11. Digger2

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    I have been down this path with massage parlors. I figured it was nothing more than "live porn". But, it is a dark path. While you may be searching to satisfy your real urge for a real woman, you intend sacrifice yourself to a false sense of relationship, damaging your ability to have that real connection, costing you more money than you realize, and exposing yourself to disease risk no mater how safe you are. My advise, consider Massage Parlors as just another form of porn and give it up.
     
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  12. deez3r

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    If nothing else works, think of how miserable the women are who work there and how many times a day they have to do it. That should help you to stop visiting them so you don't make their lives more miserable. More often than not those women are forced into that kind of work and they don't want to give you happy endings regardless of how much you pay them. Also, like Digger2 said, disease and STD risks are huge with places like that and one wrong move could potentially ruin your life way more than PMO ever did. I hope these messages help you stop going. Good luck.
     
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  13. MuscularSherlockHolmes

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    Place yourself in the shoes of these masseuses. Would you be happy and satisfied with your life if you were in their shoes? If not, then I think you should break away from this behavior. Any kind of customer service where when roles get reversed and you feel humiliated and dehumanized, is not something a sensible person should encourage and engage in.
     
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  14. Fifth Horseman

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    Such a high percentage of these wharehoused women were trafficked into the situation, many originally when underage, that it is impossible to rationalize going there and contributing to the business model. Before you go there think of your own daughter, little sister, niece or whatever, if she were brought up in desperate economic circumstances and led to that life. Don’t contribute and feed this cycle.
     

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