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Asking someone out in your local gym.

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Theoneking08, Jul 10, 2020.

  1. Kramum

    Kramum Fapstronaut

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    Lololol.
    Maybe you are perfect, lady, but not everyone is as perfect as you. I mean some women, and people in general, are more shy than others ;) Like they might avoid eye contact because I don't know, they would feel kind of silly to be caught looking at someone? :D
    Most people seem not to like when you look them straight in the eye for too long if they don't know you well. Let alone giving some clear signs, whatever that could be :p
    Have you never heard about how many shy people secretly fall in love with more confident people? Really?

    I would say that if someone wants to talk to anyone at the gym, be it a guy or a gal, then why not. But just to remember that while some ladies might be shy and actually have a fantasy of being picked up by a nice man who appreciates women that are taking care of themselves, some might already be taken or just not in the mood for being hit on and stuff, and that is something to always have in the back of your mind. That some people are certainly for it, while some are certainly not for it. Lol, some might even find it disrespectful like lol :D I would probably laugh my head off if I went up to someone and they were like: "don't chat me up, it's disrespectful". Because lol :D
     
  2. boyrose

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    If you want to talk to someone at the gym then talk to them, but remember, they are there to workout, not looking for a date.
     
  3. Kramum

    Kramum Fapstronaut

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    I have known people actually going to gyms to socialise rather than exercise.
     
  4. Bro DO IT! The gym is a great place to meet someone. I have had some success with girls at the gym, I always say something like "I don't mean to bother your workout" then proceed with the conversation. Typically approach in the open areas of the gym rather than the weights section but girls will give you their number if you are just cool and calm. Most challenging thing to me is low-key that every guy will probably stare at you while you talk to her because you actually had the balls. But when the mission is complete you feel complete badass. If your working on your GAINS might as well work on your GAME.
     

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