Attitude.

Attitude is everything. I'm sure you've probably heard some motivational speaker say this, or perhaps it's something your mom or dad said to you, or some overly positive friend said to you and you more or less just wrote them off. It's true. This whole NOFAP journey that you're on (or considering prospectively) is all about attitude and perspective.

Think about it. How many things in your life are you directly in control of? Are you in control of the actions of others? Well maybe if you own slaves or you have manipulative control over a spouse or friend but even then you can't change what they think about you. Can you control the world? Can you control your country? Can you even have the most minimal effect on your neighborhood? Many people can't even take control over the most simplest of their bodily functions. But what is ONE thing we all can say we have control over if we're being honest?..... ATTITUDE.

This whole journey to better health, amazing passionate and fulfilling sex, more control over life, better healthier relationships, new friends, better career opportunities, everything that comes with nofap starts with one thing. YOUR ATTITUDE. It all starts when you realize that anything that does not complete you or make you better must be cast aside as you walk along the proverbial path of life. Anything that does not add to your life, simply takes away from it. It takes away from the light that you can contribute to the world! It takes away from the good that you can contribute to humanity! It takes away from the beautiful relationship you can have with your future wife or the beautiful children that will one day call you "dad" and depend on your knowledge and your ability to provide in order to survive.

All of this knowledge comes simply from my experience. I have failed Nofap consistently for at least the last 5 years, but every time I have tried and failed I have stood up, picked up the pieces, put them back together and tried again. Recently something changed in my mind and even though I am only a week into my streak at the moment, I know that it will be the last streak I ever have. Do you know what changed for me? I'll give you a guess................. ATTITUDE

I realized in my heart all the things that I had known so long in my head. I accepted that sex is something valuable and meaningful, that is supposed to be shared with the person you will spend the rest of your life with. Even if you're not religious, porn is quite literally evil, when you understand what it does to people and how it affects their lives. It makes men disinterested in their wives. Maybe it makes a man content to masturbate alone rather than tell his wife to workout and lose weight because he's not as physically attracted to her as he used to be. Maybe it warps a young boy's mind into wanting some strange fetish or causes him to desire unnatural and revolting fetishes that come to control his life eventually. Whatever the case, this website is evidence of the growing movement to reject porn in favor of healthy meaningful and passionate sex with someone you love. That's what sex was meant for, and that's what you CAN have.


It all starts with attitude my friends. Be honest with yourselves. Admit to yourself that you only have ONE LIFE to live, and that wasting it on this selfish pleasure is not worth it. Take the desire you have to beat your monkey and use it to make a work of art, or do something creative! You can workout and get bigger and stronger so when you find a mate, she'll get aroused just looking at you!! You can learn, you can be better! You can rise above and soar like an eagle in this world! You can serve as an example to others helping them to find the light you have found and to live life to its very fullest potential!

Where does it all start? Attitude. Stop lying to yourself. Be honest with yourself. Change your attitude. Don't accept less than your very best.

I love you guys. I love this community. You cannot possibly understand the good that this community is capable of affecting in the world.


Thanks for listening


Jordan