Attracted to unattractive

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by EnterTheMatrix, May 26, 2020.

Agree with me ?

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  2. No

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  1. EnterTheMatrix

    EnterTheMatrix Fapstronaut

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    I am on 172nd day of Nofap-MonkMode (NoPMO Noedging Nosex) and on 184th day of not using porn to include . My addiction of these things have gone I can say that . Only some urges comes that I can control. So I am writing this as I wanted to tell you that I got these so many benifits of Nofap Monkmode and even I am unfolding new benefits of this thing also. But only one wrong thing is happening is that I am getting attracted to have sex with any women whether she is old or ugly . And I am not liking that. And I am pretty sure that this is because of Nofap. I can talk with any girls and can attract them , this is the benefit, but I am getting this side effect also of getting attracted to unattractives. So I this thing is coming in my mind always that , I should masturbate on 9th day at night and imagine the girl whom I like as my wife and masturbate. So by this I will be attracted to only her or who are at my level. But I will not masturbate for minimum 9 days or even 30 days . But when I will do that only in night after 9 days minimum, I will imagine only her the significant one. So this will help me by this situation that's what I think. So do you agree with me ? Tell me , or any better suggestion for this ?
     
  2. Easy, rate yourself. Use a number. You know, SMV? okcupid stats and tinder stats are the same as Colttaine uses in his video Gender Attraction Differential, or the same stats are found in similar mammels, like primates in Biology Culture Ideology.
     

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  3. Supination

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    I think it's very normal to be honest. Our d!ck sometimes disappoints with who he's getting up to. Or perhaps you're just horny due to doing NoFap and abstaining from stimulation for a long time.. I don't think it's something you can chose. I think it's a good sign if you ask me.. It means your libido level is good.
    In my case, Pre porn and pre Nofap It used to happen to me way more often than now. And even when i was on a 160 day streak. I would kill to have the same libido as pre-porn lol.
     
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  4. HeyKing

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    Don't worry about it. Being attracted to people that you didn't expect, is normal. That doesn't mean it's a bad thing. Just be wise and keep it in mind when choosing a girlfriend/wife.
     
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  5. EnterTheMatrix

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    I use 8, tell now as I don't know what to see
     
  6. EnterTheMatrix

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    Should I do what I have asked for in the thread?
     
  7. EnterTheMatrix

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    Should I do what I have asked for
     
  8. Makis

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    You should not!!! Relapsing is going to give you only problems. It's not gonna help you with anything.
     
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  9. I don't see this as a problem tbh.
     
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  10. Supination

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    No.

    This.
     
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  11. HeyKing

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    Definitely not. It's not worth it.

    A man will always be tempted by his feelings, but that doesn't mean we have to follow them.
     
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  12. EnterTheMatrix

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    To tell you that I was attracted to 50 years old , and don't know even if I was going to do some problematic sexual act with her , then I backed off, so tell me now , isn't it a problem
     
  13. You shouldn't.
    First of all because you clearly are very addicted to masturbation. You should never give into your addiction.
    It doesn't matter how you put it, you shouldn't.
    Second of all, you clearly not liking the fact that you are attracted to those people. So since you have a force of will (which we are training here on nofap ) you won't have sex or have anthing to do with those people. Since, you can always say "no" consciously.

    Once you will find a good partner whom you like both consciously and unconsciously and you will have sex with her, then you will achieve the same thing but without masturbation.
    Stay strong, stay safe.
     
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  14. You backed off. thats it. You will always back off. Thats what we want to achieve. You control yourself, not your urges do. You shouldn't have a moment in your life when you are not in control of your actions. Even if you are turned on.
     
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  15. There are a lot of girls lower than you, that's tough.
     
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  16. I mean, everyone here wants to have a high libido as yours. This is a good thing bro, it means you are healthy.
     
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  17. EnterTheMatrix

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    Ohh, Thanks
     
  18. EnterTheMatrix

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    Tough to find my type?
     
  19. You don't have to search desperatelly, the right one will come. You should enjoy the process. And while you don't find anyone you should also enjoy other parts of life.
     
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  20. It should be easy!
     
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