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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Jan 19, 2019.

  1. Hey guys, I was wondering if there are any other guys here that I can talk to about self-sucking and self-fucking, specifically as it relates to rebooting. Thanks
     
  2. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    Wow you can do that?
     
  3. Yes
     
  4. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

    Besides writing here, I suggest you searching by tags. I think there are people who face the same thing.

    I found out fellow Indonesian NoFappers by searching the tag.
     
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  5. Not sure how to do that. I'm brand new to the website and I'm still learning my way around.
     
  6. nerd_lean

    nerd_lean Fapstronaut

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  7. PhilJay

    PhilJay Fapstronaut

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    I can do it, it isn't easy though
     
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  8. Do you include self sucking in your list of nopmo activities?
     
  9. fire.bird

    fire.bird Fapstronaut

    I did it once, it hurt my back real bad, not to mention the shame I've felt about it :(
     
  10. Do you feel shame because it brought feelings of homosexuality? Do you feel shame when you masturbate normally?
     
  11. PhilJay

    PhilJay Fapstronaut

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    No its not on my list, just porn
     
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  12. CTRL + DEL

    CTRL + DEL Fapstronaut

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    Tried to do this once.

    Succeeded.

    Not a skill I'm proud to have discovered.
     
  13. fire.bird

    fire.bird Fapstronaut

    No not because of feelings of homosexuality, more just it being an unacceptable thing to do in my mind and I could never let anyone know I did it. Like a terrible secret that made me feel shit about myself. Overall I do feel shame over my porn and masturbation habits yes, it is not in line with who I want to be.
     
  14. do you masturbate without orgasm?
     
  15. Why do you feel ashamed about it? Do you also feel shame with normal masturbation?
     
  16. Do you feel masturbation in general is wrong and cannot be a part of a healthy sex life?
     
  17. fire.bird

    fire.bird Fapstronaut

    I do believe it can be part of a healthy sex life. But throw in some loneliness, anxiety and shame, and using PMO as an escape from all that, and it can easily become an unhealthy habit that is hard to break out from, which is what happened to me.
     
  18. Okay, thank you for clarifying. My goal is to be able to enjoy all my usual sexual activities in time, but without porn and with a healthy balanced mental state.
     
  19. Hello and thank you for your input. I wonder why people don't feel the same shame for regular masturbation that they feel for self sucking? To me, they are just different ways of getting off. My goal is not to get rid of this form of sexual gratification but to be able to eventually enjoy it in a healthy way...after a reboot and without porn of course.
     
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