B DAY

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  1. Nebulousclasher22

    Nebulousclasher22 Fapstronaut

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    Today is my birthday and none of friends( except a couple) wished me. I am not trying to be sympathetic or seek attention but wanted share my thoughts. I always have friends around me but when i pass on to year of my class they slowly move away from me. It happens every year, every person i think will be next friend moves away the next year and we don't talk anymore. I don't know why this happens to me i always lose my friends. People who was once my best friends now doesn't seem to care at all. We've had so much fun together and they seem to forget all of that next year. That really hurts and i now it seems i really don't have a best friend not even friends, Only classmates. Please share your thought about my situation.
     
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  2. Hros

    Hros Fapstronaut

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    Happy birthday!
    Do you try to stay in touch with your friends, or do you wait for them to call you? It took me years until I realized that if I don't put in real effort in staying in touch with my friends, those friendships may not last while we all moved on in different directions, and merely expecting them to do the work won't help.
    Oh, and though I try to remember my friends' birthdays, not everyone sees such a thing as a main factor in friendship. A lot of my friends don't remember my birthday, and that's okay.
     
  3. Nebulousclasher22

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    Well i only realised this after you asked...i don't really put efforts on staying in touch with them and as you told i wait for them to respond to me and now i probably know what is the reason behind it. I'll to be in touch with more often. Thank you!!
     
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  4. Hros

    Hros Fapstronaut

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    Happy to help!
     
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  5. Mr.Chips

    Mr.Chips Fapstronaut

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    Happy birthday buddy! Wishing you a beautiful and a brightening future!
     
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  6. Nebulousclasher22

    Nebulousclasher22 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you!!! :emoji_smile::emoji_smile:
     
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  7. My Best self

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    Happy Birthday don’t worry sometimes people forget its happened to me before when my friends realize oh you had a birthday but the important thing is you have friends you never know sometimes they'll suprise you. (Also happened there was cake)
     
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  8. Happy birthday Nebulous.

    keep fighting
     
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  9. Nebulousclasher22

    Nebulousclasher22 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you!!!:emoji_grinning::emoji_grinning:
     
  10. Nebulousclasher22

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    Thank you!!! :emoji_slight_smile::emoji_smile:
     

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