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Back on the Rebooting Path/PMO-Free Benefits

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by LifeTransformation2017, Nov 11, 2015.

  1. So as some of you might know I've relapsed recently. It was on Sunday so today is day 2. If you want to know why I relapsed you can check my two most recent threads. Anyway I'm back on the rebooting path and I'm more determined to ever to quit because of the benefits I experienced from living my life porn/masturbation free. During the reboot my social anxiety went away. I could look people in the eye and talk to almost anyone and I did. I was so much more confident. I talked to a lot of people and made a lot of new friends. My brain fog went away. I could think much more clearly and my memory was much better. I couldn't believe how smart I am. I always had a good sense of humor, but I was really cracking jokes towards the end of my reboot. I didn't objectify girls anymore. There's nothing wrong with checking out a girl and appreciating her body, but I thought if I was going to date someone I would be an absolute gentleman to her. I would treat her the way she deserves to be treated, not like a cum dumpster. I was much more mature. I acted my age or probably older, not like a kid in middle school. It was much easier to talk. I wasn't always at a loss of words. I knew what I wanted to say and I said it. I was enjoying the little things in life again like someone's smile or having a conversation with someone. I was getting my priorities straight. I was working hard trying to do better in school. I wasn't procrastinating so much. If I had something to do I would fuckin do it. I had so much energy too. I was on my way to becoming the person I want to be. I was a much better version of me. I didn't realize how much rebooting benefitted me until I relapsed. If I could go back to before the relapse I would In a heartbeat, but obviously I can't. I just have to move on and remember how I felt during those 121 days. That's my motivation. I hope this serves as motivation for all of you struggling with NoFap. Thank you all for reading this.
     
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  2. Dont wish to go back. Wish others had the same strength and knowing that you have right now. Imagine a tree thats been beaten down over the years, what happens? The roots get thicker and thicker, building layer and layer of skin to withstand the next hit. Guess what happens during the next storm, that strong ass tree stands tall from years of abuse.
     

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