So I have bad thoughts often. Some are true, some are not. My addiction has torn my family apart and caused me to hurt those I'm close too. And I believe it's normal to feel bad about that. But dwelling on it helps no one. From my Christian stand point I believe there is an enemy to my soul who whispers bad thoughts to distract/discourage you. So ignoring those thoughts and fighting them is good. But I have seen good Christians live badly. Hurt their wives and children, are overly negative and judgemental, but blame the devil for seeing bad things and take no responsibility for being shifty people. How do I know what thoughts to ignore and fight and which use to process my poor behavior and actions?