Basically for what reason girls expose their bodies?

They do it because all they have to show to attract a male and nothing else. They don't bring any other value unless man gives it to them like man always has. I know that's very harsh, but let's think about it for a second.

 

The simple thing is money. The more you flaunt your body, the more you get. We males tend to have more sexual appetite than females and that's why we hunt for it. Such women who expose their body are really shameless creatures.

 

They do it to ensnare us! Ever seen a morbidly obese whale in a bikini and sweet smelling perfume. Most guys will want to ask her to the prom and put her on a pedestal.Gah just writing this has me triggered AF

 

its all the evolution game brodude. Each gender's value to the other is in their genes. Women want to throw sex-fog in your eyes to trick your unconscious brain into thinking they have good genes. of course its unconscious to them too. Its really funny how the fundamental subtext of life is totally unconscious most of the time.

Revealing skin and sex appeal plays into another part of the game, wherein women unconsciously try to attract and surround themselves with as many males as possible. Having the appearance of being wanted makes one look more desirable. All the males compete and the most aggressive one always stands out, having the most desirable genetics.

Evolutionary psychology is the underlying truth to everything you ever wondered about men and women. Also many other subjects, such as art and music. It's taught me invaluable lessons, such as the fact that all women unconsciously want to be put in a cage and forced to cook and nurture children. Thats why I support White Sharia and you should too.

 

Oh also don't listen to what any females have to say on this subject. Learn for yourself about evolutionary psychology and everything you ever experienced in relationships will become painfully clear to you. I'm joking about the White Sharia btw dont kick me out I love this place v much

 

This is a reminder to all participants of this discussion to avoid misogynistic comments. Everyone is entitled to their opinion on this subject, but there have been a few posts describing ALL women in a negative light. Women are individuals, the same as men, and should be treated as such.

 

Isn't interesting that women are seen as "sluts" and "whores" when they reveal their bodies yet men are seen as "aggressive" and "alpha"? Whether you're male or female if you put in the hours at the gym and maintain a strict dietary regimen you deserve to show off the fruits of your labor.

No one is forcing you to look at a women's butt or breasts. If you lack the self-control to keep your cool and not become fixated that's no one's problem but your own.

 

I mean really, it's not hard at all, and that's even coming from an addict... I see men showing off their body all the time whether they be fit, overweight, tanned, sun burned, it doesn't matter yet no woman complains about it. But if we even dress slightly revealing for any reason we're shamed, ridiculed, and as you say called sluts just because of what we wear.

Nice body or not anybody should have the basic right to show off their body in a decent manner.

 

You seem to lack a fundamental understanding of nature. That will be your downfall.

 

Very good and valid reminder.

For me, porn has generated a general distrust of women that I am working on reversing. I know for myself if I see any “anti women” discussions I’m tempted to jump in and start slinging mud.

But that’s my f’d up porn filled mind at work and I don’t want to be that way anymore.

There are good women and bad women out there just like there are good and bad men.

We should make our decision about a person after meeting and talking to her or him. How she/he dresses doesn’t tell you everything about a person.

 

I like you @Jewels but I think this is nonsense. So if a woman feels warm she's not going to change into something cooler unless an 'attractive' man is around?

 

That like a job advertisement saying they're not interested in hiring someone with experience because they know too much.

You seem to lack the basic understanding of self-control.

 

I'm not the one who has a problem with people showing off their bodies. If I get hot and bothered by some dude lifting at the gym I look away. Simple. If you have an issue with the female anatomy I suggest you build up the courage to talk to a woman directly or find another place to congregate.

Your solution to women exposing themselves is basically to have them cover up as though they were in the Middle East. I'm not covering up for anyone.

 

I love you too Surf hahaha. Well, she doesn't change into something cooler because she's always trying to get a better mate or because she exaggerated her beauty to the point where she cant go back. We are talking in the context of women who keep themselves "exposed".

 

C'mon pleeeeeeeaaaaseeee. Lol, I was actually born in Saudi where the majority of women do in fact cover up and there are few who dont. At the end of the day it actually benefits them, by keeping themselves concealed while the man exposes his greatest asset, his wealth. Sure they can't drive, but they got a chauffeur that takes 'em wherever they need to go and that's not a bad deal for little bit of covering. Saudi Arabia is the most gynocentric country in the world.

 

I would say if a woman always wears clothes that show off skin even when it's freezing cold then yes, it's possible she's choosing such clothes to attract men. But I think you can't know for sure unless you get to know the person. I wear aftershave sometimes but it's never to attack women, I wear it so it's more pleasant to be around me (nothing more unpleasant being around a poor smelling person) or to feel fresh or feel good about myself. I might use it to attract a woman in the future but never felt the need to use it for that. I think the same could be said about women and clothes. I want to achieve things with my life but that doesn't mean I'm doing it to impress a woman. I made the mistake of doing NoFap for my ex and I of course failed. I think it's a big mistake to give up PMO just for your SO. Some people do things and it has nothing to do with appearing attractive to the opposite sex, now it might be attractive but that doesn't they're doing to attract.

Sometimes women dress up and it has nothing to do with men. I remember in one of my old church there was this baby shower and all the women wore nice clothes and makeup when it took place and there no men there (I know about this because I saw photos of the shower). Some women don't think before they get dressed. I would drive my ex nuts because I would ask her why she chose the clothes she was wearing every time I saw her and she always said she didn't know.

I just think you can say someone is doing A and the reason is always B. People are individuals and they have different kind of thoughts.

 

While I do agree women should be given the freedom to wear what they want, that being said it doesn't necessarily mean that there isn't going to be judgment or sexualized reaction headed their way.

Women shouldn't be surprised if more guys check them out and hit on them when they're dressed in a provocative manner. I'm not saying it's right, all I'm saying is that they shouldn't be surprised.
We are carnal creatures, and more often than not react to something that may trigger the senses. We also don't live in a world where everyone is a well behaved gentlemen, there's a lot of perverts out there... that's just the reality of things

To conclude, I don't see an issue with women dressing modestly. We don't need to go on either extremes. That goes for guys too!

 

I would never want to live in Saudi Arabia or ANY country where women were treated with less respect and dignity than men.

 

C'mon, we'll take a round trip.hahaha

 

In most places people do have the freedom to dress the way they want to as they should. Personally I dont condone women dressing all skankish but what women wear is at their own descresion. I feel that many of the people who post on this site have a fundamental accountability problem. It kills me to hear about them talk about porn like porn is some tough guy who chased them down and tackled them and forced them to look a tits. Reliance on porn comes from being reliant escapism and crutches to deal with deficiencies in some other area of life.

Forget what women do and why they do it. If you can't look at a women with a nice ass or big breast without going into full pervert mode and having to jerk off, then you have a serious social problems and real issues with the way you view sex. If youre a sexually healthy man you should be able to encounter all types of women, think what ever you think and not be too reactant, distracted or overwhelmed.