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Basically the only healthy fetish is...

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Ekhangel, Jul 15, 2021.

  1. Ekhangel

    Ekhangel Fapstronaut

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    ...a fetish for breeding children. The satisfaction it provides is lifelong and it turns you on like nothing else! Completely unprotected sex bringing you as close to your partner (current/future wife, hopefully) as possible. And it leaves you with offspring you need to - and hopefully want to - take care of for 20+ years, which is also a great way to help you get out of your dirty little PMO habits.

    Just wanted to drop this seemingly absurd idea here in the "problematic behaviour" section for all of you to consider.
     
  2. I really want to breed children badly, I just need to get my stuff together and find a woman that really wants children. The problem is I'm more unprepared than I'd like to admit.
     
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  3. Melkhiresa

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    impregnation fetish can also be serious if you like to do it too much as no modern woman will agree to have more than a couple pregnancy.
    I personally prefer foot fetish, its kind of harmless.
     
  4. Supination

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    An healthy fetish is a fetish that wasnt porn induced and doesn't harm anyone.
     
  5. Ekhangel

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    Most fetishes harm yourself, leading you towards an unhealthy obsession.
     
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  6. Vanquisher12

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    On one hand, I agree with @Ekhangel in that breeding is what sex is for, and is thus a healthy thing to get aroused about. I myself want to breed a willing young lady who is in a long-term relationship with me (and I am married to her) and wants to have children with me. I want to watch and feel her belly grow round and full with our offspring (something particularly arousing for a guy with a stomach fetish like me) and protect and look after her while she is in her condition. I want to work with her as a team to raise our offspring into the next generation of civilised people. Most of all, I want a son who can continue my family’s name, share in some of my hobbies and pastimes and learn from the knowledge I have developed in all my years of existence.

    However I also agree with @Melkhiresa that it can still be damaging if uncontrolled - you don’t want to have children you can’t afford to support, risk forcing your significant other into sex she doesn’t want, or feel tempted to impregnate women other than her (not only damaging your relationship and your bond, but also producing illegitimate children that will be forced to grow up without their biological father). Some fetishes are innately less harmful than others, but, like anything to do with sex, need to be kept under control and practiced in moderation if one is to enjoy it most.
     
  7. Ekhangel

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    Of course, man... This goes without saying for any thinking people. I know that the OP might have made it sound like I'm suggesting you just "impregnate a random female and see what happens", but this was supposed to be semi-humorous. I just wanted to say "cut this PMO crap off and start being real men with real manly ambitions".
     
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  8. modern milarepa

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    That's called creating a family. It has nothing to do with fetish. Just like regular sex is not a fetish.
     
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  9. Melkhiresa

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    being turned on by the tough of impregnating a woman is definitely a fetish.
     
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  10. Ekhangel

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    Say effin’ what?

    Most people I know with children are happy as hell (and exhausted). If someone’s children make him unhappy, then I feel really sorry for them (the children).

    Anyway kids, this was to be a thread for laughs. Of course impregnating is not a classic fetish. Through it I just wanted to point your perverted attention towards the original purpose of intercourse. And rest assured that once you restore your sanity of mind and eradicate PMO from your life, the thought of making love to your loved one with the noblest purpose on earth - that is creating new life - will ennoble your sexual desire to a level never experienced before.

    From my experience, sex with full acceptance of the consequences is as fulfilling an intimate experience as it gets. There never will be nothing like it before or after. In fact, thinking about it always reminds me of that sex scene in Matrix (I don’t care about the saga enough to know which Matrix that was, but some of you will probably know).
     
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  11. I mean, there's people who enjoy impregnating random women and leaving them, so it's not all healthy. I think anything below BDSM is healthy - I'm talking like feet, ankles, tit size, race, body size, clothing, etc. Like what harm is someone with a foot fetish or sock fetish gonna do?
     
  12. Ekhangel

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    I don't know if "feet" is even a fetish? You could equally claim that there is a thing called belly fetish. I love kissing my wife's belly, for instance. Just like I love her feet. And back. And neck. But to call this fetish is a little over the top.

    And tit size is just tit size, it has directly reproductive and instinctive connotations.

    You could say that "urolagnia" is also harmless if mutually consensual. Because it is! Unless we consider hygienic issues. But sex tends to be unhygienic in general. For instance, you sometimes get sweaty a lot.
     
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  13. That's kind of my point. I've seen people on here post their utter guilt about having something as little as a foot fetish. Like bruh
     
  14. Ekhangel

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    I guess the thing is that they feel wrong with "obsessing" about certain aspects of sexuality rather than looking at intercourse as a bond-building and primarily emotional experience (with an originally and substantially reproductive purpose). It is in this sense that I claim that fetishes are generally unhealthy. But obviously there are more healthy and definitely less healthy ones. Like with any abuses.
     
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  15. BlueBallsOG

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    * finding someone that loves you truly that you love back and want to growth old with togheter
     
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  16. Ekhangel

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    Yeah, that’s what it’s all about.
     
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  17. Vanquisher12

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    Gods I get horny about girls’ stomachs (or at least as horny as one gets when with PIED :oops:). Indeed I got turned on by belly before I even knew the reproductive significance of tits and pussy, even before I knew that the hardening and lengthening of my penis represented my desire to make love. Personally a nice belly is just as important as breasts and vagina in my list of desired physical traits in a partner.

    EDIT: Apologies if this post has triggered anyone, I have put it in a spoiler now for future warning
     
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  18. Ekhangel

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    You always "knew it" instinctively!.
     
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  19. Joe1023

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    Yeah, I would say that a man wanting to get his wife pregnant is a good thing. And if she's on board with it, then they should both go crazy. I don't think a fetish (at least anywhere mentioned in this forum) is ever a good thing. A couple who wants to get pregnant and have a baby is a good thing, but I personally would never call that a fetish. I personally don't think there's such a thing as a good fetish.
     
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  20. again

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    Excellent.
     
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