be careful on dates...

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by numpty, Mar 26, 2017.

  1. numpty

    numpty Fapstronaut

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    I did 110-120 days last year. I went on a date and she gave me oral sex twice. I felt empty and drained and disappointed.

    We entered a relationship for a few months. Whilst i could perform it wasn't great.

    She left me and since last June i been back on MO hardcore....

    These days dates can easily turn into sexual encounters. It's very casual and dirty and similar to PMO.
     
  2. TetsuoAkira

    TetsuoAkira Fapstronaut

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    What's your goal with NoFap?

    If you gain control of your emotions, you will not fall back into MO.

    NoFap will test you, but not automatically make you stronger. You still need to tend to your other flaws.

    It's by no way easy, but not a quickstrike method to better relationship building. It's a start.
     
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  3. Leo___

    Leo___ New Fapstronaut

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    I had almost the same problem. The question is to date someone who is not up to such things.
    How do you know it? You have to know the person before jumping in too quick, and observe her.

    Cheers
     
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  4. numpty

    numpty Fapstronaut

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    Yes but when you in relationship things can take many turns and unfolds....
     
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  5. numpty

    numpty Fapstronaut

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    To stop MO and p subs.

    I been MO 17 years its annoying.
     
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  6. TetsuoAkira

    TetsuoAkira Fapstronaut

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    Have you had many relationships?

    We get stronger with each one, but need to carefully assess and build upon our flaws to really evolve.
     
  7. Matrix Intel

    Matrix Intel Guest

    Let me see: Dissappointed after a blow job huh? lol Sex and PMO are worlds apart
     
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  8. numpty

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    I had quite a few but only last one appeared more meaningful.

    In London many girls just want casual sex and not a relationship but they lead you on as if it were a relationship. After a short space of time it ends and you resort to pmo
     

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