Since I've been going through this process, I've seen something emerge: beauty. Real beauty (not the fake stuff that porn believes to be beauty). Don't get me wrong, a lot of the women in the porn industry are very attractive, but the person on the outside probably doesn't match the person on the inside. I have grown to love my wife even more by going through this process. We just had a baby recently and she developed some stretch marks from this pregnancy. I've got to say: those are the sexiest stretch marks I have ever seen!!! Because they are real! They are life. They are a life shared with me in the most intimate of ways. Why was I constantly chasing something that wasn't real? I had a bad association in what true beauty actually was. I am now seeing porn for what it is and despise it. I am developing a true hatred of porn because of what it does to people. Looks can be very deceiving. You have to get past the looks and see what they are trying to do: they are trying to rob you of EVERYTHING!!! Find beauty in the things that are REAL and not things that are a click away.