becoming a live-in slave

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by graham55, May 22, 2018.

  1. Orest

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    i would undertand it if he got a girlfriend at least and to this with her but i cant understand how the f*** you can pay for something lke this!(sorry for my expressions in advance)
     
  2. Orest

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    i agree with this guy,its probably porn messing with your head,i mean you came here to get rid of your addiction to pornography right?but now youre actually becoming a part of it why do that? just think that if you hit enough days you may even get rid of yuor fetish i mean i struggle with mine too but i believe in myself!
     
  3. Orest

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    correct me if im wrong but dont muslims hit their women?
     
  4. Orest

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    what?cant you just get a girlfriend?
     
  5. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I am not muslim but if I understand correctly if you follow all the rules beating is more similar to spanking a child and no harm should be done. It is also only allowed when wife refuses to have sex with husband. Bizarre by modern standards but I guess that in 7th century ritualising wife beating instead of banning it cometely might had better overall effect if domestic violence was commonplace and impossible to eradicate from culture. I don't advocate this idea but I guess that it was reasonable back then.
     
  6. Orest

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    okay i will give you my honest advice that will help you realise a lot im not joking! youre not a masochist! youre not a submissive! youre not a slave! you are nothing(im not insulting you right now just read the rest of it and you will understand),your character is nothing but bad or good decisions that became habits you chose to do and after a long time they supposedly became a part of you,well thats not true! They didnt become a part of you,and there is no you,if you think this is some spiritual bullshit way of thinking i guarantee you its not!In reality you dont have to change yourself,because there is no you! theres only bad decisions and furthermore actions! if you want to change,change your actions,make the most optimal decisions,not for you now,but for your future,for your change,it doesnt matter if you make one or two bad decisions,your optimal decision making counter wont be at 100% from the moment you start,on the first day try to make one good decision,the second day two etc etc until you get everything right!thats all there is to it!
     
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  7. graham55

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    I’ve had girlfriends in the past, I was a loser and worked on myself and managed to date many girls.

    Had sex with many girls and dated some real stunner women, but in the background this “thing” has always been running.

    I’d have a relapse and not go out and talk to girls, talk myself back into it meet a nice girl bla bla then relapse and the cycle would continue.

    It’s like on a deep fundamental level I’m still a loser and a piece of shit in my subconscious
     
  8. Orest

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    read what i said in my answer to your post above please!
     
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  9. TimeToQuitNow

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    I thought this once. I thought about becoming a real life femdom slave. Then I thought "that's stupid". Dude, do you really have nothing else to to live for? Do you think you'll like this for the rest of your life?

    Some people like opium. That doesn't mean we encourage them to use it. I see your situation to be very similar. If you really are going to do this at least don't PMO for 90 days and see if you still crave this. Chances are porn is messing with your head and you just need a reboot.

    Also the fact that you wrote this here shows you have some reserve about doing this. Otherwise you would have just went and not told anybody.

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/very-extreme-severe-femdom-real-life-help.120520/

    Please read this thread. The man in it became what you are looking for and his life is a living hell because of it.
     
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  10. Mr.Chips

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    That is just in Fox News buddy. BTW i i didnt know that Graham is a muslim!
     
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  11. Mr.Chips

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    Scientifically speaking, a foot fetish that starts from childhood if was not treated right, it will lead to masochism later, and there is why many Femdom fetishists had a started from their foot fetish.

    This trick might help you, whenever you are triggered with some femdom fantasies that lead you to think to live it in reality. Try to imagine how you will live it; how she will treat you (without love, without emotions). How she will live her life freely, enjoy it with friends, relationships, while you are waiting her at home. How she looks at you, that she gives you nothing for you, but consuming you for your money and for her pleasure........

    Now cut that imagination and start imagining a natural life, with a beautiful girl who becomes your only partner, who cares about you, who loves you, who shares her emotions with you and who will understand your emotions and situations. Who will share with you a joyful and peaceful life that is colourful with all sorts of enjoyments and life adventures.

    Compare both lives you have imagined above, and choose what you want :)
     
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  12. Orest

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    man i would really like to be muslim! lol
     
  13. Orest

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    the thing you need to see right now is that you dont have to do your fetishes with someone if you dont want to(and im not talking about your lustful self im talking about your logical self)if your logical self thinks he doesnt want to do it,dont do it! no matter how full of lust you are!also ive read a thread about a guy who had a femdom fetish and he did nofap for 140 days no pmo and then he started doing maledom stuff with his girlfriend and he was cured somehow,the thing is you know i think the only way to escape from femdom is becoming a maledom
     
  14. TimeToQuitNow

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    Not sure if you're serious or not but actually being Muslim is really enjoyable. I've been Muslim for a few years now. Converting was the best decision I've ever made, Alhamdulilah.
     
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  15. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Have you been atheist or religious before?
     
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  16. TimeToQuitNow

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    I was raised "Catholic" but my parents aren't Religious at all. They basically raised me as an atheist. I was an atheist for many years. Then I started to believe in God but had no religion. Long story short I read the Quran and was convinced that Islam was the truth. The more I studied the religion the more I become convinced. I took shahada (the declaration of faith) and never looked back. Now I pray 5 times a day, fast in Ramadan, give money to charity (zakat) and follow the Sharia.
     
  17. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Where do you live?
     
  18. TimeToQuitNow

    TimeToQuitNow Fapstronaut

    NY. Where do you live?
     
  19. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Poland. I was raised in real catholic family and was catholic all my life. And faith really helped me when I needed it the most.
     
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  20. TimeToQuitNow

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    Cool! I noticed faith has helped a lot of people from this website, including myself. I assume you are referencing that faith helped you in many aspects of life. You should use your religion to help overcome your porn addiction as well.

    Fasting this month has been a huge help to me. I'm not sure what the Catholic equivalent is but maybe ask around this website. Couldn't hurt.
     

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