becoming a live-in slave

TimeForCollege · May 26, 2020

TimeToQuitNow said: ↑

I thought this once. I thought about becoming a real life femdom slave. Then I thought "that's stupid". Dude, do you really have nothing else to to live for? Do you think you'll like this for the rest of your life?

Some people like opium. That doesn't mean we encourage them to use it. I see your situation to be very similar. If you really are going to do this at least don't PMO for 90 days and see if you still crave this. Chances are porn is messing with your head and you just need a reboot.

Also the fact that you wrote this here shows you have some reserve about doing this. Otherwise you would have just went and not told anybody.

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/very-extreme-severe-femdom-real-life-help.120520/

Please read this thread. The man in it became what you are looking for and his life is a living hell because of it.
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This thread no longer exists, is there anyway to access it?? I really need it as I am in the same position as the creator of this thread.

Mideast · May 26, 2020

hi graham and everyone, I have the same femdom but have not went paid others ( I have paid a member fee for a website once or twice though) and have been to 12 steps to learn humility, higher purpose and honesty in my life. However, I know for sure no matter what real life is better. I numb my insecurities when I use porn or femdom. It gets worse so the softer and easier way to deal with life is NO porn no matter what. I look forward to see even more personal changes happening in their own time.. we relax and accept life completely , talk to others , seek therapy , walk a gentle and an accepting path and watch if we are kind and honest with everyone including ourselves or not. We basically focus on other things but very diligent and reach to God (or karma) then think of something else that helps us in life.. everything truthful, clear and helpful. expect the stupid porn and femdom.

TimeToQuitNow · Jun 3, 2020

TimeForCollege said: ↑

This thread no longer exists, is there anyway to access it?? I really need it as I am in the same position as the creator of this thread.
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You can make a similar thread probably. Just discuss what you are going through

Orest · Jun 18, 2020

@TimeForCollege I suggest you join this group to get to more than 90 days without the need for fetish porn:https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...ogether-to-get-sh-t-done.273731/#post-2503828

radhouane · Aug 2, 2021

Round Robin said: ↑

hey mate I don’t think that’s true. You don’t come out of the womb ready to submit and be on your knees (rarely).

you also don’t really go through childhood (wanting to do blackmail and other deprived acts. Sure maybe there are some extreme cases but the majority are porn induced escalation.

I am reading the book the suggestest to read, it’s really good and I’m learning a lot.

will be back to review the book since I think it’s game changer.

cheers
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did all your kinks and fetishes start with foot fetish ?

Beekind · Aug 2, 2021

Birds who are born in cages will never crave freedom.
I can't believe the low level masculinity has reached.

Beekind · Aug 2, 2021

Round Robin said: ↑

The relevance is that i often see posts here about fetishes and porn induced fetishes.

In my case i had them before porn, last night time i spent some time thinking about it and 3 occourancea stand out.

When i was a child around the ages of 0-10 i had femdom thoughts before porn.

I was raised as a Muslim and was taught that paradise was under the feet of my mother (this might be a strange concept to understand). When i first heard about it i thought it was weird but told my mum while she was lying down on a bed and proceeded to kiss her feet.

the 2nd instance is i remember having watched a movie where a girl collars a guy with the heel of her boots and immediately thought about how hot that was. There was more scenes where she had guys as slaves on all fours as furniture, i can't remember the movie but it got me aroused. Again i was 5-10.

the third instance I recall was when i went round some relatives house we somehow got talking about feet and one the girls asked me to smell her foot to see if it smelled like pineapple since shed bought a new lotion.

in primary school one teacher would say if you misbehave you sit at the front next to my cheesy feet and it turned me on.

when i think about these 3 instances they are neutral events. I couldn't control what happened to in any of the circumstances.

i don't immediately think ah that's how my fetishes started because its hard to understand. A foot is a neutral thing but for some reason i found it arousing.
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Wow, watching f*kd up movies at an early age.
Yes heaven is under mothers feet, but only few ppl take that literally.

Round Robin · Aug 25, 2021

radhouane said: ↑

did all your kinks and fetishes start with foot fetish ?
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yes, the problem with the industry is that at such a young your brain is still developing. And What starts off as 1 thing can very quickly find yourself in some dark places, then you're left scratching your head thinking... how did i get here??

So to answer question Yes. But even that was unnatural for me. As it was sexual abuse from an early age that triggered the compulsion.

Beekind said: ↑

Wow, watching f*kd up movies at an early age.
Yes heaven is under mothers feet, but only few ppl take that literally.
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This is also a negative imprint that formed part of my view of women and sexuality at such a young age. This is why movies have (r) ratings for a reason.

In regards to the 2nd part, for me this was part of the violations and sexual abuse that were crossed that also left me stuck as a 5-6 year old child. Only now do i see how that had caused alot of pain and compulsion.

The biggest question i'm facing now, having well and truly faced the darkest and deepest parts of my being
is the direction i wish to head in moving forward.

I'll let the aura flow naturally.

radhouane · Aug 30, 2021

Round Robin said: ↑

yes, the problem with the industry is that at such a young your brain is still developing. And What starts off as 1 thing can very quickly find yourself in some dark places, then you're left scratching your head thinking... how did i get here??

So to answer question Yes. But even that was unnatural for me. As it was sexual abuse from an early age that triggered the compulsion.

This is also a negative imprint that formed part of my view of women and sexuality at such a young age. This is why movies have (r) ratings for a reason.

In regards to the 2nd part, for me this was part of the violations and sexual abuse that were crossed that also left me stuck as a 5-6 year old child. Only now do i see how that had caused alot of pain and compulsion.

The biggest question i'm facing now, having well and truly faced the darkest and deepest parts of my being
is the direction i wish to head in moving forward.

I'll let the aura flow naturally.
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bro if we wanna say it's trauma you can say it, but the truth there is no truth in this world , imagine evryone have foot feish you will not se it wrong right but maybe the problem that we are seeking to much for our fetishes and kinks and w became addicted to them and this our submissive side and it's feminene side , maybe we are not working in our dominant side the masculin side , all the type ok kinks nad fettishes thy start from our real life you can se how your eacher for exompl dominate or sometimes your mother or your boss humilliate bcause you are not doing well(humilliation fetish) feet it could b something when you see it when you are young and you felt that i's pretty part of th body and it is why not , but you choose unconsly devoped by porn , adn it leads to many oher things , i feel if we know ourselves better we can see th right picture , like
on any thing else you have choice to play dominant or submissive in any thing in your life you ar th owner of you decisons

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