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Been battling PMO for 8 years still can't maintain erection...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by bigmeat99, Jan 3, 2019.

  1. Jan 3, 2019 #1
    bigmeat99

    bigmeat99 New Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone,

    Just a long story short about me. I discovered I had sexual issues due to porn back in 2011. Failed relationship and it took me 2 years to finally go cold turkey. 2013 was my longest streak 250+ days of no pmo. 2014 got into a relationship and had successful sex but with the help of blue pill. I ended up breaking up with the girl because she was crazy. I fell back into the porn scene and haven't had really and intimate relationship until now..

    Early last year I went 6 months no pmo, then binged for a month and been on and off all year. So a few days ago I was with my girl and she had me excited turned on then when I was going to enter her, my penis just died.

    I'm young 27, healthy and fit, good blood work. I just don't know what gives? Should I use blue pill? Should I go see a uroligst? I feel like something isn't right. I don't wake up with morning erection but all I want to do is please this girl. I feel myself fearing being a disappointment. Any help or advice would be appreciated.
     
    bigmeat99, Jan 3, 2019
    bigmeat99, Jan 3, 2019
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  2. Jan 4, 2019 #2
    Limitbreaker

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    Should I use blue pill? Should I go see a uroligst?
    Go to an urologist, check your health out, dont use blue pill

    I feel like something isn't right. I don't wake up with morning erection but all I want to do is please this girl. I feel myself fearing being a disappointment. Any help or advice would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]

    Thats your problem! All you want to do is to please this girl! But the opposite works. Do, what YOU like to do during sex and please yourself, arouse yourself. Tell your girlfriend you want an evening, where SHE pleases only YOU the whole evening, all kinds of things you want from her. Tell her, what she should wear. Tell her how you would like the room decorated, maybe some candles and some good oil or something that smells good. Tell her how she should touch you and where she should touch you, tell her that she gives you a long massage before foreplay. Let her focus completly on yourself. Take atleast 30 min or an hour for the foreplay and YOU should just relax and enjoy it. Take time, even if you dick does not get up, let her massage you, let her touch and blow your genitals even if its not hard its still enjoyable and enjoy it, no pressure. And when you are done and feel fullfilled and satisfied, then you can ask her how she wants to be touched and how she wants to make love to you.
     
    Limitbreaker, Jan 4, 2019
    Limitbreaker, Jan 4, 2019
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