hello, I would like us to reconsider the concept of the 'like' button. We all know the 'like' button in the social media world is contributing to social anxiety and that anxiety is a fuel for addiction, so why would we employ it here? I use it and even as a newbie to Nofap I am already monitoring how many likes I am receiving and personally to me I have in my head a comment-to-like ratio that for me defines success and status. The flip side to it is that it's an obsessive thought and also rather like the finger pointing at the moon, becomes the main focus of attention. We as a recovery community have a vested interest in the proper and healthy use of all tools and resources at our disposal, for ourselves, our addictive/compulsive behaviour. I propose we do one of two things or maybe even both: 1) we as a community define acceptable, healthy, informal rules/standards/guidelines for the like button; call to awareness the pitfalls of misuse and how simple and insidious it's potential. 2) we conceive of another system that is an improvement on the like button.