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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Raf013, Nov 11, 2015.

  1. Nov 11, 2015 #1
    Raf013

    Raf013 Fapstronaut

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    Hi , I am 28 yr old guy who has been watching porn for masturbation for almost 10 yrs now. For last 2-3 yrs my test have moved to more violent and extreme porn. I though about giving up for sometime and have tried unsuccessfully for number of times. I learned about Nofap yesterday and decided to try one more time with you guys help.
    I would appreciate any help from stop me relapsing. To hope and the first day!
     
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  2. Nov 11, 2015 #2
    RiBo

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    Good luck with your NoFap journey! Are there any specific goals in mind? It helps in the process.
     
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  3. Nov 11, 2015 #3
    SolidStance

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    Welcome, glad you found this community, it has certainly helped me.

    Try to keep us with you in the daily battle. Since we are together in this, we win together. Yes, we are all uplifted by your success. When you slip, we all feel that too. But, as a whole we are solid, so speak up so we may aid in your recovery.

    Solid Stance, Brother in Arms to Heirs of the Sun. On call and ready for deployment.
     
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  4. Nov 11, 2015 #4
    IGY

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    Welcome Raf. :) Here is a good starting point - understanding the science behind addiction and the inexorable decline into salacious sex scenes that degrade and disgust us, yet, titillate and tempt us to return for more. What a mess! :(

     
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  5. Nov 11, 2015 #5
    Raf013

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    I am looking for a time period to get my normal libido back. I think about sex a lot like porn sex not intimate sex. I will try to be abstention until my thoughts become more intimate. More like before porn. And I could stop thinking about sex and get on with my life.
     
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  6. Nov 11, 2015 #6
    Raf013

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    Actually I watched it yesterday also this one.
     
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  7. Nov 11, 2015 #7
    RiBo

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    I'd say create distractions for yourself and indulge in hobbies you love in order to keep these thoughts at bay. In time, your brain will start appreciating your hobbies more and would stop being active around "porn sex". Always look out for your triggers and try to avoid them as much as possible.
     
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  8. Nov 11, 2015 #8
    Raf013

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    I love to read books and started doing that. I have got rid off all the material from my desktop. But knowing too much that i feared to most. I have know almost all the pornsite there is. And that's the scary part for me.
     
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  9. Nov 15, 2015 #9
    Raf013

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    Today is 5th day. So far i haven't watched porn or gone to any tube site, despite my mind continuously asking me to. Finished 4 books. But the outside world is not helping. Is it okay to fantasize about woman i see on the street or advertisement. Need help guys. If i understand these fantasies are normal then it might help me a lot.
     
    Raf013, Nov 15, 2015
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