Being a teenager and alone...

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Abdoh Ash, Jan 3, 2018.

  1. Abdoh Ash

    Abdoh Ash New Fapstronaut

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    Well, Hey folks.
    First of all I want to thank all the great and wonderful humans who came up with this NoFap site idea... I started masturbation at the age of 14 and I used to watch porn several times but not like an "addict". So it has been around 2 or 3 months since I found NoFap and I really want to end this shit forever... So when it comes to porn, I no longer watch porn for months and I feel better and I also tried stopping masturbation but the problem is that I relapse every 2 or 3 weeks. I feel ashamed of myself after then and I feel bad because I broke my promise. The problem is being horny and a teenager... I'm 15 (Almost 16) and sometimes I have prostate pain because I'm horny but trying to not masturbate, and I already do work out and have some useful things to do in my day. But I really want a solution to never get horny and to stop this curse. I consider myself not an addict because I rarely do it once a month but I don't feel proud doing something like this. So I want your suggestions... and your recommendations. I know the "Cold showers and working out daily" stuff and I do them. So please give me something or an advice which can help me physically and mentally to stop this thing. I know that I won't be able to have sex until I'm an adult and that's the problem. I'm doing this because I want to live in a future where I will be happy because the future belongs to those who prepare for it today.

    Thanks in advance,
    Abdoh.
     
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  2. David stone

    David stone Fapstronaut

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    Is this a joke? Ur 16 and dont know how to escape this curse?

    Wow...at ur age i was really enjoying videogames and masturbation.. i had not such worries.
     
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  3. pezzy⚡️

    pezzy⚡️ Fapstronaut

    I guess you just need to keep reminding yourself of the benefits and keep coming back to your reasons why you decided to do this. It's hard to overcome the temptations especially as a teenager when your hormones are off the rail. But, at the end of the day, the future is in your hands and if you think something like this is worth chasing and you want to get up to those higher streaks then just go for it! don't let your doubts bring you down. Other than that im not aware of any other kind of solutions. I guess right now, just take this time to build a new habit that you enjoy, try and take your mind off porn. Maybe even find a person that you can centre your attention on in the hopes of building a relationship with them. Sorry its not great advice though!
     
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  4. Crimson Guard

    Crimson Guard Fapstronaut

    Hey man, you've come to the right place! You are here with us, and we want to help you! Man, First of all, there is the most important thing you should do: Pray to God to help you! God is the one that can change your life, you know that. You should read the Bible, you need to quit your life! You need another one, a new one, and you with God, can make another one just for you! Don't worry about what happened to you, this is nothing compared to what others experience! It is not to late to change, and you are the one who can change! Man, it is a game, set a goal, you can achieve it! Pray, avoid urges, block P content. I will give you this strategy, maybe it helps you! I will pray for you, God will help you! Stay strong, please!


    Note down this strategy called HALTS. What's this? Simple. These are the most common reasons why we PMO. This is the list:
    • Hungry
    • Angry
    • Lonely
    • Tired
    • Sick
    • Sad
    • Stressed
    • Scared
    • Shameful
    Now, you know yourself better. For every of this feelings, find a solution that excludes masturbating and porn, of course, and use that when you feel that way. And if there are more feelings, your can add them, but still call the strategy HALTS haha.

    You're not prepared yet to have a girlfriend, I am 19, I don't have one, and I don't want one, because I am not prepared yet to have one.
     
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