Hmmm so when we have dicussions I’m starting to feel nervous about speaking my feelings or why I feel the way I do because most of the time it usually ends up with him getting mad and feeling hopeless (set back). I usually feel like the bad guy and that I’ve hurt him. I have a problem that I ramble when I get nervous thinking I’m going to smooth things over but that makes things worse. I’m trying to be mindful of that and also not give advice when not asked. So far each time he gets out of it but I’m fearful that something I say will put him down permanently.