Being virgin after crossing teenage is potrayed as sin or incapablity

Of course it isn't. It's up to you whenever you want to lose your virginity. Anyone who says otherwise should shut the crap up.

 

I lost my virginity shortly after my first stint with quitting PMO when I was 16, and I can say, value it. Wait for that special someone that you're interested in and deeply care about. Don't waste it on some random prostitute or someone you don't know.

 

The stronger and more stable you are emotionally the better your first time will be. I was insecure and weak and unsure about what I'm doing exactly so better do it when you are mature enough

 

I never lost my virginity and I am not loser,If you think losing your virginity is the biggest important thing on planet earth then you might check to a mental institution.

 

I'm 24 and still a virgin. Sex was never meant to just be tossed around and taken lightly "just for fun". Doing that has caused absolute regret and misery for so many people. Sex is for giving yourself ENTIRELY to someone else. It's meant to bond you to that person. Save it for someone you love and want to be with for the rest of your days.

 

First time is always sucks.. so, I'm happy to lose it early.

 

To answer your question, being a virgin doesn't mean that you're a loser. I was a virgin until I was 24, and I was so embarrassed that I still still a virgin that I felt this pressure to lose my virginity at that age. The night of UFC 171 after we streamed the fights we both went to go see separate hookers, he paid for mine so I wasn't going to say no to a free hooker. So I go to her and I go softer than charmin toilet paper, and I was unable to have sex with this person. She was hot but I couldn't get hard and I decided to leave. I tell my buddy that I did fuck her because I didn't want him to feel like I wasted his money. Few months after that, I met someone on POF and lost my virginity to her for the first time. I do believe things happen for a reason, and looking back I am so happy I went soft that night because I truly didn't want to lose my virginity to her that night. Not saying losing your virginity to a hooker is a bad thing, but to me I didn't want that to be my story. So at the end of the day man don't force it, let it come to you. I mean you only lose your virginity once and there shouldn't be a rush on when you lose it.

 

Sex is over-rated. Only a dumbed down society of drones could take it so seriously.

 

A lot of people lie. Maintain a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy.

 

thanks man!

 

I didn't have sex until I was 20 and married. One of the best decisions I've made.

 

For me I didn't lose my virginity until I was like 22 and it was with a woman I had a deep dare I say spiritual connection with... In all honesty losing my virginity wasn't that big of a deal prior to that.

In other words it wasn't a priority for me i didn't build my entire identity on the idea if I had fucked someone or not.

I had friends at the time that would go on about who they nailed and how they did it. and there was a part of me that felt embarrassed I suppose. But I knew if I really wanted to I could make that happen I just chose not to much like how I chose to stop PMO.

So in short being a virgin doesn't make you a loser. Let me tell you a secret after you have sex with someone the sun still rises and sets the tides come in and go out and the world keeps spinning. Nothing has changed just because you had sex.

Don't apply so much emphasis on something that in the long term is trivial. Working on yourself is better in the long run than having had 100 partners with one to two fornication trophies as a result.

 

Congratulations on how far you made it, and not to mention what you realised through out that experience! So be proud that you stood up and didn't give in to the peer pressure of society.

Don't worry about being a virgin, it doesn't matter what age you are when you first have sex, you want to make sure it's a person you actually love and want to spend your time with. That's awesome you feel so passionate that it should be with true love, keep it up and stay strong, you'll find someone to share your days with!