Best summer of my life...

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Mentor23144, Aug 21, 2019.

  1. Mentor23144

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    Hi guys,

    I've heard about NoFap first time sometimes last year and I started practicing it actively this year. First I had a good streak from Jan 5th to June 23rd, then from June 24th till August 1st and that period was crucial for me.

    In that month or so period I was practicing hardcore mode and I was going out almost every night, I made a pause for 2 or 3 days tops. Thing is I was always shy and insecure with girls and I never approached them in person, well...till now.

    I was going out with one good friend of mine to some clubs and parties and I just felt this confidence boost all of a sudden and I told him man tonight we are going to approach girls no matter what. That was June 25th. That night we approached 4 girls and they were all so cool and chill despite the fact they where at least solid 9s.
    The moment I saw they are interested for talking I just started talking to them about everything like I know them for so long and they were really receptive. That night was really what changed my perceptive towards everything and I immediately thought about past situations and girls I could've approached and meet them, but fuck it no regrets only learning. Long story short from that night on till now I've met around 20 girls some through friends and I would say 10 of them where from cold approaching.

    I am currently on my streak from August 1st and I am not planning to stop guys, I really am confident like never before, my body language is calm and secure and girls notice that. I still have so much to learn about gaming and girls but what I noticed couple of days ago is that I cant stay idle for long like I have too much energy to invest in different things. I want to start my online business now and I actually get angry if I notice that I waste my time on some stupid things or if I didn't do nothing at all for some period of time during the day.

    One other friend who always ask if I have any girl in my life on August 3rd I said come with me and lets meet girls, he stared at me and couldn't believe I've said that. He never approached girls in person but was in a relationship with couple of them. That night I met one gorgeous brunette that was pure 10. You should've seen his face during the time I was talking to her. I've got her number that night also. Last night we are on couple of drinks at some bar and one girl out of 3 that were next to us kept looking at me all night and every time I catch her she quickly look away :D

    I mean just 2 short months ago I was totally different, like some beast inside me woke up and said enough is enough. NoFap what have you done to me :D

    If you don't see any results just keep on pushing, I fucked up my first long streak and nothing happened until I started my second one and just kept believing I am on a right track. Also don't forget don't just sit and wait for everything to fall in place for you, little action is also required. Challenge your comfort zone, I know I definitely challenged mine and not even in full effect and I feel great.

    Cheers everyone !
     
  2. SirErnest

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    Lots of guys report that increased happiness, calm and confidence are attractive to women.
     
  3. vad

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    Well done! Keep it up!!
     
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  4. hardowner

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    That's impressive...
     
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  6. the awakening

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    Cheers everyone ![/QUOTE]

    Amazing story bro, keep going by the way how are you going to learn to game with girls do you have some mentors in that are?
     
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    This is the best post I've seen on the site. You're actually taking action and getting somewhere. I especially like that your cold approaching women. That's a much bigger challenge than people realize if you were withdrawn before. It's important for me to keep in mind that my goal should not be to stay off porn, but to start living life so porn isn't necessary.
     
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  8. hardowner

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    If you make it through the challenge and you don't get super powers, there's something more that is wrong. Perhaps depression, anxiety, low testosterone levels etc. That's what I assumed.
     
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    I read a lot of stuff online on gaming and seduction in general and I just try it in practice with girls and see what works and what not. Also I watch movies/TV shows were I can see some of the tactics that could be useful in real life(The Thomas Crown Affair, Hitch, Bond movies, Crazy, Stupid, Love and similar ones and shows like Californication and some shows on leadership like Billions and Peaky Blinders where you can learn how to stay on your purpose, how to stay calm and collected when everything is going downhill). I am currently reading book The Charisma Myth, give it a try.


    Thanks man I appreciate it , and you put it great in your last sentence. That's the thing, just occupy your day with useful stuff and go towards your goals so you don't have time to think about damn porn. Good luck.
     
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  10. ace1234

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    Can I give you some advice?

    First I want to congratulate on your success. Second, I want to say that you should be careful and remember to stay humble. Something can not go your way and you may find yourself going back to porn.

    This happens to me. Also, try not to think of women as 9's or 10's. You are putting them on a pedestal and objectifying them. They are people man, just like you and me. It took me a long time to learn this.
     
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    I am always open for an advice and thank you, and yes you are right 100% about both statements. But also I experienced a lot of failures and managed to start another NoFap strike and stay positive, also I never put them on pedestal or being needy. I've heard so many guys saying that and its true. I just talk to them like normal human beings and never expect anything from them in return.
     
  12. flapjacks29

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    Excellent job! Loneliness is a killer; when you start meeting people, it tends to diminish loneliness, etc. At least, That's what I've found in past relationships.
     
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  13. Encernia

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    Damn good job man
     
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  14. pimp

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    Well done brother. We'll meet on the new side of life soon i can tell
     
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