BEST TIPS FOR SUCCESS -ACCOUNTABILITY GROUP

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bob12345, Feb 18, 2021.

  1. Bob12345

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    Today was not the best day for me. For 2 days, i have regularly posting on nofap.com and i have been self disciplined, but today I was not self disciplined. When I felt pressure, i immediately conceded and allowed myself to panic and I subconsciously thought that because I am feeling pressure, I must give in. I did not embrace the pressure, but I allowed to control me. This is the key to success in nofap. It is all about the way in which you approach the pressure that comes from the road to self improvement and success. If you allow this pressure to consume you, you will panic. Panic is a dangerous emotional state to be in. When you are in panic you do a million mistakes and you end up regretting everything. This is why never approach your success emotionally. When I allowed myself to be consumed by the pressure and panic, my commitment decreased from 100 percent to 99 percent. If we were to approach pressure in a logical manner rather than an emotional one, we would be making wiser and more clear-headed decisions. For example, if you allow yourself to be controlled by pressure when you feel tension, pressure, and an urge to stray away from success, you will most certainly bow down to the pressure be enslaved to it. On the other hand, if you approach that urge in a logical manner, you will have more time to think about the causes of this pressure , and you will most likely make the right decision of using this energy or tension as a force for good. What this basically means is that you have to be very careful and attentive when you feel that sort of tensions and urge to seek instant gratification. Think about why you are feeling this pressure and use as fuel to success. Don’t throw away your gallon of gas, your protein shake. Today I almost relapsed because I allowed that pressure to consume me. If what I was looking for weren’t blocked, I would have probably fallen into that vicious cycle again.
     
  2. Bob12345

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    Let's make this an accountability thread, together we can help each other. I promise to help you with a lot of tips, since I spend a lot of time educating myself about this addiction.
     
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  3. sinner76

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    hey man, I'm in!
     
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  4. Bob12345

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    Hopefully we can get more people to join and help them beat this addiction. We shouldn’t live lives we know we are going to end up regretting. It’s time to make a change
     
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    This is why you shouldn’t trust everything a doctor says. It’s also why men will always be better than women. Imagine a man explaining how pregnancy feels. Fucking idiots. This article just made me lose some brain cells
     
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  6. sinner76

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    lmao, wtf is this shitty article
    Remember that it's their job to write articles for the site, and sometimes they have to post bullshit as long as the site gets new content and visitors. Also some people need to hear that MO is healthy from a doctor, that makes them feel better lol
    okay, that would get some of our feminist friends angry.
     
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  7. she-dernatinus

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    Actually, I personally do not give it much attention. As I've seen way more disturbing things said about womankind in this site.
    Saying this simple statement, seems like something a little boy would say in a playground to get reactions from girls. There are many men in here addicted to degrading content against us, and it doesn't surprise me it will wire their brains in some way. Even when most of time, it's just complete delusions.
     
  8. she-dernatinus

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    There are many misleading articles, cooked and prepared for the sole profit of industries. That is how they form their future consummers.
     
  9. sinner76

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    #Respect.
    It was the woman who gave a bad impression here. What was she thinking by advising people to visit phub, if they can't sleep. That sounds completely retarded.
    yeah sure. But in this particular article, I think there was no evil intentions, just pure stupidity.
     
  10. Bob12345

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    yes she is an idiot. What would she know about masturbation. It's one of those things no matter what she does and no matter how much she gets educated on the subject, she will never know what it is like
     
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  11. TheForsakeen

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    you understand that women can also masturbate right?
     
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  12. sinner76

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    I think he meant being a PMO addict
     
  13. I know this. Probably they have no education about P or they watch P too so they can't ignore theirselfs.
     
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  14. Bob12345

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    Yes I know big man. First, she is an idiot for trying to explain why men should masturbate. it's male masturbation she wouldn't know a thing about it. Second, there are far more male pmo addicts than females and it's much different. I don't know a thing about female masturbation but what I can tell you is that far more men suffer from this problem.
     
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    You can trust doctors in most cases, but when It comes to this topic, they won't tell you to stop masturbating, they'll diagnose you with some thing that you already know you have and you already can cure on your own, and on top of this they will make you pay for medication you don't need. Im not undermining doctors but when it comes PIED and ED, nine times out of ten they are wrong. You will rarely get a doctor tell you to stop wanking to cure you ED.
     
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  16. I know a doctor that he says 3 masturbation in a week is healthy... Huh

    Well said brother , very true. Most doctors don't see PMO as an addiction. They'll just tell you you're worried. I experienced this.. Also I think i have no ED , but I have other symptoms..
     
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  17. sinner76

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    well, most doctors will tell you that it's good as long as you don't over do it. I guess they all read that article above.
     
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  18. I don't agree with them. As you said probably they read that type of article causing brain cell loss haha
     
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  19. TheForsakeen

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    Not saying that pmo is good but there are proven medical benefit to masturbation/sex, the fact that some people feel bad about doing it(or overdo it) doesn't mean anything.
    And saying she wouldn't know anything about male masturbation because she isn't male is just being close minded, that is not how science work bud.
     
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  20. sinner76

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    Want to mention that people don't feel like shit after sex, only PMO makes you feel like crap.