Better late than never.

[TheWalrus]

Well, this is new. I've refrained myself from watching porn and masturbating before but it lasted only a fortnight or so at most. Also, I did it all by myself, I couldn't tell anyone what I'm trying to do and was always lacking motivation after 5-6 days. I've noticed previously, masturbating always consumes a good bit of my free time and it got me worried. Due to the urge of doing it, I lost valuable time which I wished I could've dedicated to doing something worthy of the time. I became hopeless and sometimes felt worse.
I'm 22, male and not ashamed to say that I'm a virgin which is not my choice. On a second thought, it might actually be my choice because I never had any intention of finding a girlfriend or having a relationship although I'm attracted to women. My shyness may also have contributed to that. However, I'm a human and humans have hormones which act as they please regardless of whether you're sexually active or not. Hence, I discovered masturbation, purely by accident. I've been doing it since.
Anyway, I want to put a stop to it now. It's affecting my thoughts. I often find my mind wandering in the sexual fantasies. Therefore, I've come here, in hope of finding support and help to make myself last longer than my previous attempts at practicing abstinence.
It seems that I've babbled quite a lot here, I hope you can forgive me for that. Goodbye, have a nice day.

 

[Macstronaut]

Good luck to you! I just joined too. Finding my way around the site still, but wanted to wish you well. There's so much more we can probably do with our free time!

M

 

[TheWalrus]

Good luck to you! I just joined too. Finding my way around the site still, but wanted to wish you well. There's so much more we can probably do with our free time!

M

Thank you. You're right, we can do better than what we're doing now. I wish you luck too.

 

[mstevens]

Welcome to NoFap, you have already taken the first step towards victory. This is a battle, and one that you are not alone in. I recommend to immediately acquaint yourself with the site, join a group, and know that we are here to support you! I would recommend joining 1 group though: Heirs of the Sun are very involved and are here to support you through this struggle. Have a great day and welcome!

 

[TheWalrus]

Welcome to NoFap, you have already taken the first step towards victory. This is a battle, and one that you are not alone in. I recommend to immediately acquaint yourself with the site, join a group, and know that we are here to support you! I would recommend joining 1 group though: Heirs of the Sun are very involved and are here to support you through this struggle. Have a great day and welcome!

Thank you for the support. I'll check it out. I'm just getting familiar with the site.