BEWARE of "Sissy Hypnosis"

I tend to agree that this whole toxic sub-genre is highly fetishistic, and not for the most part aimed at true trans/gay people. I doubt they need/want humiliating, degrading hypnosis porn to help them find themselves. Instead it's mostly a kind of psychological identity fantasy that some addicts end up experimenting with after vanilla straight porn just doesn't do it anymore.

The danger for them is that the messages, both overt and subliminal, can persist after PMO binge sessions, and, over time, leave identity confusion in their wake. If you've been exposed to it, and find yourself confused, then take a long break from all porn, especially any hypno junk. Very likely those troublesome thoughts/feelings will begin to evaporate as your core self returns away from the psychological manipulation you've been exposed to.

 

Transgenderism is all about fear, insecurity and confusion on an incredible deep level.
Cutting the flesh or clothing up doesn't change the real problems.
It's a distraction.

And this is not my opinion. It's my experience.

 

REALLY!?!?!
Do you KNOW a real ONE? Have you EVER spent time with a trans-person in real life? Do you have an OPINION based on something other than PORNOGRAPHY that you have watched, or hookers you have hired?? ...or your own rabbit hole of emotional confusions???

TRANS PEOPLE ARE REAL and BALANCED. There are a MASSIVE number of well balanced society-contributing people ----- STOP basing your views on PORNOGRAPHY and PORN ACTRESSES, or ESCORTS ---- all of whom, by the way, are engaged in LEGAL activity driven by a MALE-dominated market for their goods.
There are trans-people in the medical, legal, political, social, entertainment, restauramt, fashion industries ------ many many many of them have never engaged in the limited activity that you judge a whole category of individuals.

I am beyond saddened by this post --- especially as you "friended me" and communicated with me in the past ---- I had NO IDEA of this view.

This site is too filled with narrow-minded TRANSPHOBIC hatred ....I just can't sustain reading all the opinions that are so so so so so WRONG. Everyones opinion on TRANSWOMEN is based on their viewing PORNOGRAPHY. TRY to get to KNOW one of us, you will see we are perfectly normal!!!!!

WE EXIST!!!! I know for a FACT that I EXIST and your judgement of my "categorization" is just plain RUDE, WRONG, and BIGOTED. VERY BIGOTED.

I WILL DRAW YOUR ATTENTION to a NoFap RULE:

Misogyny, misandry, racism, anti-LGBT, or any sweeping statements pertaining to every member of a demographic of people is not permitted. Although we may have differing viewpoints, we're all here to help each other abstain from PMO. Particularly, threads attacking women and threads based in hatred to a specific group of people are not permitted on the forum. Although this is a male dominated forum, there is also a significant number of women here. This forum is designed to be an inclusive place for everyone to fight PMO and to support others in recovery.

I have been on NoFap for over a year. It has helped me greatly. Thank you to my friends, but goodbye. THIS is MY LAST posting on NoFap --- a place filled with a few good people.... and sadly many atrophied narrow-minded opinionated and bigoted .....f#ck it....I am going to stop right here.

Enjoy your little echo-chamber together.

 

I have read your post but I still dont understand what this kind of genre it is can someone explain it to me?.

 

Jamie is a very nice smart and pretty woman. Respect Jamie for who she is.
You would want someone like Jamie in your life because she is a genuine person.

 

Everybody has their own opinion about why transgenders, gays and other non-vanilla sexual orientations exist. There are no real scientific studies on this, and I doubt that they will ever exist. As long as a person is happy with who they are, they should be left alone. As people, who go through sexual orientation change because of porn (including myself), it's easy to be prejudiced towards other gays, trans and LGBT community in general. I strongly believe, that there are some confused people, who had their sexuality warped through pornography. But being trans and being gay IS NOT ABOUT SEX. It's about social role in life. Trans person, who is happy with his or her role in life and gay person, who is happy with his or her role in life, excluding SEX AND ANY SEXUAL behavior, should be treated as a normal member of society. Confused trans and gays who had their sexuality warped because of child abuse, or porn should of course seek help.

 

You know my journal. I've been as transparent as possible.
I've struggled with homosexuality, transgender issues and lot more. And I wrote a lot about it in my journal and I know there is a way out. Everyone can read it as I decided to be a transparent person.
I love people for who they are, but that doesn't mean I agree with everything they do.

I'm just wondering why you are attacking me.
Here in public and in a personal mail.
Isn't that a sign you do have an issue to face?

I mean if you are really sure about who you are in the core, you shouldn't feel attacked by words that were not addressed to you personally.

 

Hi, you better not try that stuff because it is amazing damaging your inner world.
I 've tried to describe "sissy hypnosis" in my journal.
If you are interested, you can read it here.

 

My question to you. As a man how can you be tricked into wearing femine clothing and makeup? just by watching videos and why are they so addictive?.

 

That is a very long story. I described it in my journal. If you are interested, you can read my story there.

 

Short answer is: Why a heroine addict can stick up dirty needle in his vein inside abandoned house? Why is he not disgusted by it?
The answer is - to get that dopamine. Addicted brain doesn't care about consequences, about your status, previous experiences, addicted brain just wants new dopamine hit.

Sissy hypno videos are basically heroine of porn. They are the worst. When I started watching them, I escalated to trans porn, even wanted to change. Than my addicted brain got tired of it, and I switched to gay porn, and I wanted to become gay bottom. I was born straight, was straight my entire life, discovered that shit when I was 19.

 

Thank you, @Star Lord you are a good friend and a wonderful person.

 

YOU attacked an ENTIRE group of people --- transgenders ---- by saying all transgendersim "is all about fear, insecurity and confusion on an incredible deep level." THAT is so very wrong.
Sadly, you think that is a fine and acceptable statement to categorize an entire sub-population of people. For that reason, there is no rational conversation to have. That is not my opinion, that is my experience based on a lifetime of dealing with overconfident underinformed people.

 

So if some moderator read this, you deleted my thread about worst porn genres but this low level brainwashing bullshit is ok? Wtf

 

It's never my intention to hurt people.
If you read my journal, you can read about my own struggles around transgenderism.
I've struggled for 20 years with this thing, and I found a way out after a lot of study and self examination.
So when I give an opinion, it's based on my own experiences on this area.
For 25 years I longed to be a woman, fantasized to have sex as a women, clothed myself as a women etc. Today I don't feel this need any more. Do you copy me?

I feel sorry for you that my words triggered you so heavily. Maybe I was bluntly; it's not a theme that can be described in two words.
Again, it's never my intention to hurt people. But the way you react to me, shows something about yourself. Here you show your insecurity.
Attacking another is not very respectful. If you are sure about yourself and your identity, you don't need to attack.
For instead, you should be able to give a mature, well founded reply where you explain why the other is wrong, helping him to understand the issue better.
At least that is my way to respond to others.

But, I only wanted to respond on the words of @MichaelDracula

what brings up the actual question I think:
what is a real trans person, and what is a non-real trans person.

 

The answer is simple - you are happy with your choice to live a social life as opposite gender. Not only in the sexual way, but in the social way too. And I said choice, because you don’t have to act upon your wants. You can always change. But you choose not to change, because that’s what you want socially, not controlled by addiction or lust.

 

All of you have good points, but at same time all are wrong. You're attacking each other when our fight is against PMO and its awful consequences. @Roady and @Jamie_K_ are fighting for something that's not even related at least not entirely.

It's true that most of the sissy hypnosis videos are find it on transgender pornography web sites. But these videos have been made it to target straight males that lacking of confidence on their manhood, these videos can even become a straight guy is someone that started to doubt about his own sexuality and when you try to quit it as me and others like me, you will start to suffering of anxiety and hocd.

Also, it's true that most of the transgender girls live in poverty and their main occupations are prostitution and pornography. In order to achieve their ideals to be beautiful and be girly for their male partners. As @Jamie_K_ said a lot of trans women are successful in their careers and professions. However, when you write successful transsexuals on google you aren't going to find web sites related to that, instead you will be find thousands of web sites related to P and Sex.

We're all brothers and sister fighting to achieve a better version of us and to help boys, girls, men and women that are suffering same problems in these awful world controlled by sex, pornography and promiscuity.

Have a nice day and call down.

 

Little correction:
I am not fighting. I was giving my opinion and belief on a certain point.
When I then see somebody is attacking me personally I feel the need to give a little defense.

It's always odd to see how things are twisted.

 

The last thing I would like to say to you @Jamie_K_ is:

I'm still here to have a normal conversation with you, eventually with a moderator. no conflict is too big to be unable to talk about it.
It's a big step to leave the community, and I would like to spare you taking that step.
I've always respect you as a person. Not without reason you complimented me 2 weeks ago for all the insights I gave you.
And now I set one statement (which I believe it's true), you take a huge offense.

I would like to advice you:
Don't quit the community, but leave it for a while.
I know what it is to take offense. In that case: I know *I* have to do some work on myself.

Think about. You can learn a huge thing about yourself in this situation.
But only if you are willing.

And if I am wrong somewhere, I would like to hear that from a moderator.

And I was thinking about this:

I'm wondering if porn has lured you into your current life.
I'm wondering how many trans porn you have watched making you believe you are a trans, as it seems you totally identify yourself with it.
And I'm wondering how many hookers you visited in your life.
I'm afraid your words are telling a lot about you Jamie.
I would like to put it back to you. You seem to be the confused one here, not me.

 

transgenderism existed for centuries before tvs, cars , stereos, billboards etc, we could say pornography makes people gay or trans or whatever but we all have a need to find something to place blame on its in us to do we want to find a reason to things we dont like ,little kids who arent even 5 yet boys dress like girls ,girls dress like boys no porn exposure there even theyre parents try stop them from doing that but cant, its who we are, its in us all to be aroused by both sexes , most males are scared of this in them so they lash out at trans people , gay people , i believe trans people an gay people help with over pollution not every female needs to go pop out a baby there would be no more room on this earth, religious people get scared of it an call it abomination , god is love , love is the connection of spirits , spirits dont see male or female or black or white they see another spirit , all porn is the same primitive level no matter the genre, it all rewires us, if you want to find out if its love take out all addictions, a African person well get ganged up on for being african, but the next day he has no choice but go back out there an face the world again knowing he well get hurt again because hes african the same with trans people its who they are since birth, not to long ago everyone was blaming music black people made, an dance music videos with black poeple doing there dancing they do, the devil music ,devil this devil that, claiming black music is making theyre woman turn to black men, black music is destroying the society they claim, males are aroused but both sexes females are aroused but both sexes its who we are, with or with out porn its still who we are, dont be afraid of our biological nature, being aroused is our sexual energy activated an growing, we accomplish an thrive off all energy the main one is sexual energy ,porn doesnt turn us into anything it just activates what is already inside us but it doesnt need to be activated ,